women and views on oral sex

[2HOT4U]

I am an almost 37 year old woman who is divorced and out playing the field again and it seems that most men seem to want oral sex. I have never been a fan of giving it but love receiving it, just something about putting it in my mouth that I have a problem with. Another thing that happened is a met a woman one night we got a little bit tipsy and ended up in bed together and she performed oral on me so I felt obligated to do the same to her and I truly enjoyed both giving and having her give me oral, is there something wrong with me? It was better than any man ever did to me, i think about it all the time and hate to admit it want it to happen again. Is there other women out there who have experimented with another woman and what did you think about it?

[Kallygirlie]

I've never done anything with another women but I can tell you the reason I may have felt so good is women know what we like right. Guys know what they think or been told but another women knows how she likes it done so thats how she does it. Nothings wrong with you. People do it everyday

[LanaBear]

There's nothing wrong with you... Women know what pleases them. We know what feels good to us, with a guy all we can do is communicate it to them and hope for the best. She did to you what feels good to her... I've been told that men give the best blow jobs... Who knows?

Maybe you are realizing that you are leaning toward another lifestyle, nothing is wrong with that. Do what feels right for you.

[GlitterAndStuds]

First off, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you for enjoying yourself with another woman. You like what you like.

If I can say it anywhere it's here... but I've experimented with other girls before, although I've never been the one to perform the oral on them. So I don't have much input on that. But I have to agree with Kally, who knows what a woman likes better than another woman, right?

I say if you want to do it again, do it again. You're not hurting anyone and you're enjoying yourself. It's fine.

[Miya]

I agree wholeheartedly with Kally, Lana, and Glitter. We know what we like and what feels good to us and there is nothing wrong with you at all. "Society" may have it's norms on how a relationship should be but WE make society.

I've gone so far as kissing and touching but not oral which is not to say I wouldn't do it if I were in the mood and the moment presented itself. (I'm sure my DH would LOVE to see it but FAT CHANCE for him, lol)

Enjoy and explore. Life is too short and every opportunity gives us a chance to grow.

[2HOT4U]

I agree wholeheartedly with Kally, Lana, and Glitter. We know what we like and what feels good to us and there is nothing wrong with you at all. "Society" may have it's norms on how a relationship should be but WE make society.

I've gone so far as kissing and touching but not oral which is not to say I wouldn't do it if I were in the mood and the moment presented itself. (I'm sure my DH would LOVE to see it but FAT CHANCE for him, lol)

Enjoy and explore. Life is too short and every opportunity gives us a chance to grow.

why does women being with women seem more acceptable for society than men with men, I think 2 men together is gross but seeing 2 women together turns me on a lot, why is that? I have to admit that the firs time I licked another woman I was nervous but once I began I found it enjoyable, the taste, the feel, the sounds she made. Alright I am turning myself on now

[Isabellacat]

I've had experiences with other womens...Awhile ago I had a girlfriend and we always loved going down on eachother. I agree I love it alot more than giving oral to a guy. With a woman it feels more sensual and I like the taste and feeling better. Even smells better too....ahh I'll never forget my ex gf's scent and she always said how much she like how I smell too.It's like heaven lol.

Giving blow jobs to guys....I don't like that feeling after doing it for awhile my mouth starts to feel sore and does'nt feel pleasurable.I don't mind it but giving BJs is my least favorite act. I find that more painful than anal sex actually. I could give good head to a guy when I've had a few drinks tho.Somehow alcohol gets rid of that awful gag reflex.

[crazyone81]

I had a recent experience lately. Me and my roomate in college actually got a little tipsy one night and needless to say one thing led to another and she performed oral on me. It was the most amazing thing I have ever felt and the best orgasm I have ever had. We now have nights were it's just us two and of course I give her oral too I don't think anything of it, I have a boyfriend that I love but sometimes girls just want to have fun! I coulddn't help myself she's freakin hott! And now I want to do it to her all the time just to know that i'm pleasing her.

[Emma37]

When I was in my mid twenties (now 38) I was staying at a friends house after a night out, we would always sleep together but in a non sexual way.
We were talking about gay experiences and before we knew it we were kissing and touching each other, I then went down on her and she came very quickly and she then returned the favour. it was the best oral I've ever had.
We are still very good friends now and we still sleep together on the odd occasion and now we like to use sex toys and even strap-ons on each other.

[Miya]

why does women being with women seem more acceptable for society than men with men, I think 2 men together is gross but seeing 2 women together turns me on a lot, why is that? I have to admit that the firs time I licked another woman I was nervous but once I began I found it enjoyable, the taste, the feel, the sounds she made. Alright I am turning myself on now

I don't really understand it seems to be more acceptable. That seems like a silly cultural thing to me. Personally I'm not grossed out about hertero or homo sex though I don't spend a lot of time watching either. Though I haven't seen it in real life (only porn) the 2 guys together thing turns me on as much as seeing 2 women together. *shrug* I dunno why.

When I've had experiences with other women, I've found it extremely enjoyable and definitely something I'd do again if the situation was such (though since I'm married I wouldn't do it w/out hubby's knowledge or participation (in whatever capacity) as that would be cheating. I agree that there something about another female's responses (physical and audible) that is very stimulating, perhaps because they're so close to my own and guys just have a different way of responding.

To me, both are good as as long as it's safe and not adultery.