Ladies question about penis size issues when having sex?

[Calidood]

I started having a FWB relationship with this 30 year old woman who has 4 kids vaginally but she's really short and petite (5'1 110 lbs.) She's probably one of the tightest women I've ever had even though she has had 4 kids. I make her bleed. I'm not huge or anything. 7 inches long and for a visual of girth, if you wrap your hand around an EMPTY toilet paper roll, I'm slightly thicker in circumference girth. (probably 5.75 inches round) Do any other women have this problem? Do you think it's just because she's so petite and short? We've tried lube, and it doesn't work.

[WildChild]

Is she bleeding from some sort of vaginal tearing or could it be that you are hitting her cervix and causing the release of some of the endometrium (uterine lining that is shed during menstration)?

[Calidood]

Is she bleeding from some sort of vaginal tearing or could it be that you are hitting her cervix and causing the release of some of the endometrium (uterine lining that is shed during menstration)?

We have never had sex during her period. She says that it hurts from the stretching (my girth) but doesn't really feel the pain on her cervix unless we are doing doggystyle. But some of the times she's bled were when we were doing missionary style. Do you think I'm just too big for her?

[WildChild]

Even if she isn't having her period, bumping against the cervix can result in some bleeding. What I was wondering is if you (or she) have actually seen tears?

As for too big, hard to say. There are women who use really large dildos. I had a bf who was 10 inches with a good girth at the time I was 115 lbs. I'm 5'5", it was not a problem but depends on the woman.

[2HOT4U]

Even if she isn't having her period, bumping against the cervix can result in some bleeding. What I was wondering is if you (or she) have actually seen tears?

As for too big, hard to say. There are women who use really large dildos. I had a bf who was 10 inches with a good girth at the time I was 115 lbs. I'm 5'5", it was not a problem but depends on the woman.

Can I ask if you enjoyed him more than other men? I expereinced a man once who was not quite that long and girth that I could not get my hand around and I was nervous, but once he finally entered in me completely I can honestly say I never felt anything like it before or since, problem was I enoy some other things that because he was so large we could not do.

[WildChild]

He was good but a man that size who wants to have woman more than once has to get good at making sure she is well aroused. I've had others as good or better and much smaller.

[Hopeless Dork]

She should probably schedule an appt to see a gyno to make sure the bleeding isn't from anything organically wrong going on in there. I don't think her being short has much to do with it.

It could be a lubrication AND arrousal issue. You've tried the lube, lube does help... but if she is an extremely arroused state her vagina becomes more prepared, it swells a bit inside and becomes more comfortable... don't use lube instead of trying to get her naturally arroused it won't yeild as positive of results than if you make sure she's good and turned on, perhaps a manual/oral orgasm first before penetration, add lube... and she will probably be more comfy.

[OhThereYouAre]

He was good but a man that size who wants to have woman more than once has to get good at making sure she is well aroused. I've had others as good or better and much smaller.

Ah - so there is hope for us mere mortals?

[pocari]

I have the same thing, I am 5 feet 2 inch tall. and it hurts everytime my bf do the deed (and yes, his penis is big). and ended up having some kind of urinary tract infection after some frequent sex. idk, is it cuz of the size or not... still a mystery for me..

[WildChild]

Ah - so there is hope for us mere mortals?

LOL absolutely. I'd rather have a caring man who wants to share pleasure than one who relies on size anyday.