My boyfriend looks at videos of other girls on youtube.... :(

**Miya** · 10-15-2009 05:07 AM

Originally Posted by GlitterAndStuds

My list is pretty long too...

Ahh but how long?

Too long can be uncomfortable....errrr..I lost my train of thought and went somewhere else.. haha

**OhThereYouAre** · 10-15-2009 06:43 AM

Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork

blah, I don't know how well the making a vid yourself works to curb their interest in STILL viewing other chicks vids goes. I mean by all means make them, he'll like it... but will he still want to look others, yeah probably so.

I think guys, even faithful good guys, just need to look at other women in a sexual way sometimes. We have to suck it up and deal. For most women, we don't have that need to see other men in order to get ourselves excited or to produce an orgasm... Men, by and large seem to need to see lots, of different, women.

I get annoyed because its such an unfair thing, no its not cheating... but because they are men -- them lusting after other women is 'normal' and we're never to feel down on ourselves, like we're not adequate 'material' because its just how guys are.

Men. Could. Not. Take it. Oh they say they can, but thats only because they know they won't have to. If you were youtubin' guys waving their penises all day, he would get a complex. No doubt. But that ain't gonna happen... is it? lol. Thats life.

Meh - men deal with sex toys.

I wish I had a machine I could lie back in bed, place on me, handsfree, and have an orgasm in 30 seconds. Rawr.

**Miya** · 10-15-2009 06:59 AM

OTYA there is...it's called a wife/gf.

**danceintx** · 10-15-2009 07:17 AM

I really get what Hopeless Dork is saying here. Of course it bothers me anytime I feel like I am not everything to my SO. And if my SO was watching other girls shake their arses on youtube, yea, I think the first thing to come to mind is, guess you aren't quite as into watching mine. According to a book I read awhile back, one of the absolute most important things to a woman in a relationship is safety and security. If your man is gawking at other women, you feel very insecure or threatened. Yes, men are visual, and if it's so accepted for them to gawk at other naked women in a relationship, then since women are more emotional, it should be fine for us to fill our emotional needs elsewhere as well, right?

**OhThereYouAre** · 10-15-2009 07:23 AM

Originally Posted by Miya

OTYA there is...it's called a wife/gf.

I think we were speaking in the context of masturbation.

And for the record, I can't get myself off in 30 seconds, lol.

**Miya** · 10-15-2009 07:29 AM

LOL ok I admit my comment was out of context.
FWIW I can't do it in 30 sec. either (self or hubby)

**AloneNtheCrowd** · 10-15-2009 09:52 AM

Actually I'm sure not all guys have to look at other women to be satisfied. My ex used a polaroid to take pics, so I didn't need porn or anything, she actually bought me my first porn video lol. I can say if my GF was willing to take some sexy pics for me I'd never look at any porn. I find I'm pretty focused on the woman I'm with unless things seem to be be falling apart.... for the most part anyway

I guess it would be the equivalent of making a toy moded from my parts....

**GlitterAndStuds** · 10-15-2009 10:30 AM

Originally Posted by Miya

Ahh but how long?

Too long can be uncomfortable....errrr..I lost my train of thought and went somewhere else.. haha

Haha well now that I think of it, it's not that long at all. After that it's just naming people who are hot, which is kind of silly

**Miya** · 10-15-2009 10:32 AM

haha believe me I have one of those lists running in my mind from time to time.

**GlitterAndStuds** · 10-15-2009 10:33 AM

Originally Posted by AloneNtheCrowd

Actually I'm sure not all guys have to look at other women to be satisfied. My ex used a polaroid to take pics, so I didn't need porn or anything, she actually bought me my first porn video lol. I can say if my GF was willing to take some sexy pics for me I'd never look at any porn. I find I'm pretty focused on the woman I'm with unless things seem to be be falling apart.... for the most part anyway

I guess it would be the equivalent of making a toy moded from my parts....

Oh absolutely. I wasn't in any way generalizing guys in that sense, which is why I always include the word "most" or something like that. I know there are PLENTY who don't need anything except the image of their loved one. And I absolutely adore those guys, haha. I think the other reason my SO hasn't broken out the porn is because when I get bored, I take advantage of us both having camera cell phones.