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  • I'd be so turned off by the fetish I'd probably break up with him.

    1 8.33%
  • I'm turned off by the fetish. I'd accept his fetish, but I wouldn't smoke for him.

    5 41.67%
  • I'm not turned on/off by the fetish, but I also would not smoke for him.

    0 0%
  • I'm not turned on/off by the fetish, but I would pretend to smoke w/ unlit or fake cigarettes.

    1 8.33%
  • I'm not turned on/off by the fetish, but I would smoke for him occassionally.

    2 16.67%
  • I'm not turned on/off by the fetish, but I would smoke for him regularly.

    1 8.33%
  • I am turned on at the idea, and I'd pretend to smoke w/ unlit or fake cigarettes.

    1 8.33%
  • I am turned on at the idea, and I'd smoke & fulfill his fantasies.

    1 8.33%
  • I have the fetish too, and I'd pretend to smoke w/ unlit or fake cigarettes.

    0 0%
  • I have the fetish too, and I'd happily smoke & fulfill his fantasies.

    0 0%
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Thread: Fulfilling your man's FETISH ?........

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    Question Fulfilling your man's FETISH ?........

    Ok so imagine your man just confessed to you that he has a smoking fetish.

    [For those of you who are unfamiliar with this fetish, it simply means he finds the visual sight of a woman smoking and other related smoking acts sexually stimulating. Tyipcally, couples that encorporate this fetish into their sex life have fun with smoking blowjobs, smoking while having sex, smoking as foreplay, you get the idea.]

    So the question for the ladies here is, would you be willing to fulfill your man's smoking fetish fantasies?

    If so, what would you be willing to do?
    Are you currently a smoker?
    Have you ever smoked?
    If not, would you smoke for him occassionally or regularly?
    Are you turned off by the idea of the fetish?

    I'd love to get a general survey of how women might react! Vote in the poll, but also please comment as well!
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    I would not open myself up to that fetish. I don't date men who smoke, I don't smoke myself, and I would not do anything to imitate that behavior.
    I don't smoke incense in my house, I have never smoke pot (despite that my generation is notoriously open to the idea) and I certainly wouldn't smoke cigarettes.
    No offense to those who smoke, obviously that is NOT my cup of tea and I do what I can to avoid having a smoky environment. There are plenty, and I mean PLENTY of people who still smoke ... unless an already-established partner somehow developed this behavior, (unlikely since my current partner has asthma and can't be around smoke,) I would not find it difficult to send him on his way.
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    LOL, little, how do you REALLY feel about smoking?
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    Sounds like an easy wish. Most can come up with 500 things far worse
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    Neither of us smoke but I'd pretend if it was something that he found enjoyable about it (even if I didn't understand). I'd never actually smoke though as just the smell of it (cigars/cigarettes/etc (well pipe isn't too bad) is usually enough to make me nauseous.
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    Haha, obviously if this were a more general post asking about "wierd fetishes" and "how you would respond" I would be more open minded. But smoking = yucky for me. And fetishes escalate ... if I agreed to a fake cigarette, how long before he asked me to get a real one? How long before he'd ask me to light it?
    Maybe I went overboard with the incense, hehe. But I seriously can't smoke it in this house because of my sweet little asthmatic.
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    I used to smoke tons so I'm not turned off by it... although I will say, I don't really get how a fetish came of that. Then again, I guess that's why they're called fetishes

    I'd do it for him if I knew how much he enjoyed it, but only once in a while. I don't really want to go back to smoking as regularly as I did and then try to stop again, haah.

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    This could be something to break my relationship. He'd have to accept that fetish would NEVER come true. I have never and will never smoke. My best friend lived with me in a 2nd story apartment. She had to drag herself down the stairs to smoke outside (she's in a wheelchair). It sounds really harsh. My entire family smokes. I dont judge those who smoke. I stand outside at work and talk to the people outside smoking. I lost my Mom to Lung Cancer. Prior to that, I didn't really care. Yet even then I would not pick up a cig for anyone. Smoking is not a turn on for me and smoking during sex, well that doesn't even make since to me and I wouldnt do it
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    I would not smoke for my man, smoke makes my sick, but i would not leave him because of it, I would compromise and agree to cater to another fetish
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    No smoke for me, quit years ago, can't tollerate it in an enclosed space. Try to find some compromise? Maybe the illusion or sense of it? How about a long, sexy cigarette holder with a candy cigarette in it? (Do they make those anymore? probably not)
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