what would be your response if..

**dr.mansview** · 10-14-2009 10:33 PM

someone came up to you and said "what's a nice person like you doing in a place like this"

**Isabellacat** · 10-14-2009 11:08 PM

I've been asked that question before lol...what's a nice girl like you walking around a place like this so late?? blahblah

My response...... I'm not scared!!!!!This place is nice. Do you have a Tic-Tac??

**x.st.angel.x** · 10-15-2009 06:41 AM

lol i guess i'd just say 'a place like what' acting all stupid haha i do it often

**Miya** · 10-15-2009 06:43 AM

I've responded with "What makes you think I'm a nice girl?" (the tone depends on whether the guy seems cute or creepy) haha

**Nats** · 10-15-2009 08:43 AM

"You invited me to your place for dinner..."

**Livelaughlove** · 10-15-2009 09:12 AM

I would say women will subconsciously read into this and wonder what your true intentions are.

Causing her to:

A. Question your motives, leading to her testing you by acting aloof. Or giving you an answer that requires you to reveal your true intentions.
B. Act disinterested and hope you get the memo to leave.
C. Come to the conclusion that you were not confident enough to approach in a more direct statement.

However if she is bored she may show interest until something better comes along.

Something that would work better is.

"I noticed you when I walked in and had to come and see what you were like"

Your acknowledging her beauty with respect, wondering if her personality is QUALIFIED to spark your interest. It also leads to a more emotionally satisfying conversation.

The women may correct me if Im wrong.

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**Texinator** · 10-15-2009 09:15 AM

I don't know. Nobody has ever asked me that.

'What's a person like you doing in a nice place like this?' on the other hand.. haha!

**WildChild** · 10-15-2009 09:27 AM

Hi LLL, relax a little dear, I think you are over analyzing and that's my thing.

As a line neither of these would "hook" me. I'm not interested in qualifying - I'm the prize (twinkle). But the first is at least knowingly trite and presented right would be humorous.

Response would depend on who said it and where.

**Livelaughlove** · 10-15-2009 09:39 AM

Originally Posted by Isabellacat

My response...... I'm not scared!!!!!This place is nice. Do you have a Tic-Tac??

Originally Posted by x.st.angel.x

lol i guess i'd just say 'a place like what' acting all stupid haha i do it often

Originally Posted by Miya

I've responded with "What makes you think I'm a nice girl?" (the tone depends on whether the guy seems cute or creepy) haha

Originally Posted by Nats

"You invited me to your place for dinner..."

Originally Posted by WildChild

Hi LLL, relax a little dear, I think you are over analyzing and that's my thing.

First, I wasn't upset or anything so why relax? I speak with passion so it may come across in my writing. If someone is offended then I apologize.

WC,

The funny thing is I didn't read any of the other responses the women wrote.

If You noticed all the other response the women gave are naturally testing. They are playing with the men, not in a manipulative way just to have a fun time.

From this point on the responses may be influenced and skewed now that brought it to light.

True,
....The thought of qualifying may put you off, but its a natural step in courtship. When you guys get to know each other you are essentially qualifying to each other.

It also depends on the setting... But naturally this line is blah and doesn't spark much emotion.

Ofcourse everything has an exception.

Lets first figure out whats the point of the line.

Its a conversation starter, the guy thought she was cute and wanted to chat her up. HE DOESN'T CARE WHY SHE IS THERE! So why ACT as if he does. Hiding his true intentions, to get to know her better.

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