What kind of men do women really want?

**caterpillar79** · 10-25-2009 05:42 PM

Mispelled her name: it's RORI RAYE

**WildChild** · 10-25-2009 05:56 PM

Glad you got one in there. Do you find that some of the women just echo the men though? I've noticed it with some.

**caterpillar79** · 10-25-2009 06:00 PM

I listened to one of her interviews and she actually was explaining how (most) women feel and why they feel that way. She was telling all these nuggets to David DeAngelo infront of an all male audience. It amazed me at how it made an impact on my fiance's mind set about women. He appears to be better equipped in dealing with my whims and "female issues".

And yes, there are some female coaches/therapists who just echo male viewpoints. Maybe, on that matter...whatever works, we'll find out.

**WildChild** · 10-25-2009 06:05 PM

You just have to keep exploring because what works for one couple might or might not for another.

**caterpillar79** · 10-26-2009 06:35 AM

You're right, WC.

I wonder how many women would actually want to "have" this kind of man rolled into one though - or at least some combinations of it. (I know it sounds impossible)...Oh, men...

**OhThereYouAre** · 10-26-2009 06:47 AM

Originally Posted by caterpillar79

Lucky enough, WC, my fiance is doing that - one reason why I accepted his proposal. He reads books and listens to interviews that are geared towards having him understand women. I am seeing dramatic changes in his ways (which I hope to be consistent)...and on my part, I have been doing that also for the last two months of our break.

Like you said, I am growing and exploring, and so is he. Now, we've decided to do all of these explorations together, for better or for worse.

Did I read that correctly? Your fiance and yourself are taking a "break?"

**caterpillar79** · 10-26-2009 06:50 AM

That's a WAS....we break up two months ago - he hasn't proposed that time yet. Now we're back together, he proposed, and we're shooting to be married in 6 months or earlier.

**caterpillar79** · 10-26-2009 06:51 AM

* broke up

**blondie80** · 10-26-2009 03:45 PM

I think most women would be happy with one or two of those aspects of men lol, though most I have come across which caterpillar mentioned was understanding womens whims and female issues, it makes it all sound so general but from reading all these forums at times i think we all have them!
You and wildchild are both right if men took a little time to try and understand us or even half of the time we spend trying to understand them it would be alot easier for all of us.