My wish list

[StillLearnin]

Is this a reasonable wish list for a sexually active couple? Threesome might be pushing it, but I'd only do that with a paid "consultant" so risking friendships and emotions won't, or are less likely, to get in the way.

• Dirty talk - during foreplay and sex
• Threesome
• While watching porn
• Copy porn
• On table
• On desk
• In shower
• Doggie
• Cowgirl
• Reverse cowgirl
• Spoon
• Standing from behind
• On secluded mountain top in open daylight
• While on backpacking/hiking trips
• On the beach
• At city park in open at night
• Mile high club
• Standing blowjob
• Cum on
• Cum in mouth, swallow
• Cum on back
• Cum on face
• Threesome, pick up stranger (man or woman)
• On parked motorcycle
• In airplane above the city lights
• BJ while driving
• BJ while flying
• BJ in movie theatre
• BJ deep throat
• BJ by two women
• Suck on balls
• Eat
• In hot tub in public
• In public restroom at mall, movie theater
• In public dressing room
• Take pictures during sex
• Make sex video
• Role play – doctor, cop, lawyer, Catholic school girl, etc.
• Have sex several times a day
• Multiple rounds during same session
• Have sex every day of the week
• Morning blowjob before work
• Evening blowjob after work
• While running at work, meet at hotel along the route and the rest of the afternoon
• 69
• In weight room during workout
• Laying tit
• Standing tit
• Make love, and , all night long
• like porn stars
• Groupie sex in the car during a break at a gig
• Autograph boobs at a gig
• Sunday afternoon while watching football games
• In restroom of dance club
• To be “distracted” while watching a game, working, etc.
• Clean shaven, or with landing strip
• Anal
• In a limo, with my head out the sun roof

• Get matching tattoos
• Tattoo our names on each other

• To know that you are the sweetest lady on the outside, but my sex goddess on the inside

• Biggest fantasy that encompasses everything listed: to live a sexually active life rather than an oppressive one, where sex is the center of my life rather than not knowing the next time I’ll have it

[WildChild]

Personally, and this a very personal preferance thing, I wouldn't go for anything involving other people. An observation, this seems to be more focused on getting you off. What's special in this for her?

The man in my life is into "porn" sex and really I've about had it with that. That's OK for a while or once in a while but not as the main thing, so watch out for that - it's very "user" feeling after a while (on both sides). Why not balance with some tantric practices, which are intended to create and enhance a spiritual connection through sexual joining? You should be able to find some tantrists in your area who will be happy to share some understanding of that or there are a number of good books.

[OG612]

Never put a name on your body that isn't your own, or your kid's name. Putting your lover's name on your body is a curse.

You have a very big list there, my friend. How old are you? How sexually active are you? Have you completed any of your list? Or did you just come up with this?

I've already done most of the things on your list. It's not hard to do. Just lead your women to where you are going in your sex life and they'll follow you as long as you are a strong man who knows what he wants. If, on the other hand, you're a whiny little chump who can't take control of his life, it'll never happen.

OG

[Theresa]

Some sound like alot of fun. Some not so fun (just my opinion). Would you talk to my husband please????

[GlitterAndStuds]

This stuff is all very doable... You can probably bang out a whole bunch of them in one night if you're feeling ambitious (no pun intended...mostly ). Some are good, some I'm not quite sure I agree with.

I'm with OG that it's never a good idea to get someone's name tattooed on you. I won't even get a band tattooed on me, let alone any other names. Matching ones, maybe. And doing these things with more than one other person present is not all it's cracked up to be... but that's just from my experience, a lot of people think it's great as well. Just giving my own input.

[nightqueen]

All those public places might be stretching it a bit, IMHO.

[StillLearnin]

It's mainly positions and locations.
Yeah, you are right, getting other people involved and the tats will probably not happen.
I've had 25 years to think up this stuff. Since I started dating my wife. It's been infrequent missionary the past 20 years, since we got married. I'm hoping she is ready to let me live now, unlike she ever has.
And you are also right that I will have to be assertive to make it happen. No more holding back my needs and wishes with her. For now on I'm communicating and insisting my needs be met. She's coming around.

[WildChild]

Loving sex is about mutual desire and mutual pleasure, not demands or insistance. You haven't been around long enough to know all that OG is into. Your wife is emerging from a life long sexual shell, like a flower opening into bloom, you can create the ideal environment but you can't force it. Using PUA techinques might not be your best plan. You've been patient all these years, don't hardline it just when she is opening up.

[StillLearnin]

Yes, I agree. Thank you.

[OG612]

You haven't been around long enough to know all that OG is into.

Not even I know what I'm in to all the time. I'm real schizophrenic like that!

Your wife is emerging from a life long sexual shell, like a flower opening into bloom, you can create the ideal environment but you can't force it. Using PUA techinques might not be your best plan. You've been patient all these years, don't hardline it just when she is opening up.

WOAH!!! I'm not some PUA, honey. Not anymore.

Still Learning, if you want it and can make it mutually pleasurable for both of you, she'll come with you... in more ways than one!

OG