Hey, I was just reading this and was wondering if any of the women on this thread had any anal sex tips? My boyfriend and I have had anal a few times and it's really great once you get used to the sensation! Just a rather different sensation. Everyone has to decide for themselves wether they want a certain sexual position...and thats all it is :a different position. Nothing to be scared of or shun...trust me..I've done it..lol.
Sexual contact between you and your husband is not a sin. weather it is oral anal or vaginal if god wanted your anus to be an nothing but an exit surely he would have made it smaller so nothing that big can enter it. but as it is some people like and some find it disgusting. i am in between. I have never heard of it making the butt cheeks any bigger. not to sound rude or anything but do you see a lot of gay guys with huge butts. I dont.
![]()
As I read this I was horrified. First off my husband and I have had anal sex plenty of times before. 1. MY butt is NOT bigger 2. My husband still prefers vaginal sex over anal sex anyday. So for you to say for sure or guaranteed you are lying. Just because you believe somthing to be true doesn't mean it is true. Shame on you for bringing up religion into then putting in lies. If you wanna convince someone to believe in whats right and wrong then put in things that are the truth. And lastly what happens between a husband and a wife in thier bedroom between them is not a sin.
Also some men like to have a change after a while of having sex vaginally makes it less tight then what it first was. Havin sex annally is a new "adventure" for them lol. The way my husband desribed it is it's a different feeling becuase then anus is tighter then the vagina. Some tips one doing it this way. Start out vaginally. have plenty of water based lube, have him start with just one finger and have him make circles with his finger, while moving it in and out slowly! Make sure that you are relaxed though or it could make for a very uncomfortable experience. Besides the position of doggie style you can also have him be on top of you kinda like missonary style. Also if you know before hand that this might be involved in sex tonight try and visit the bathroom and ...umm how to say this...make sure everything is out? lol If done right the experince shouldn't hurt that bad. Good luck!
Thank you Felicia for your post. I hate when someone asks a simple qusetion amoung all of us women for some honest, non judgemental advice and you get someone preaching at you about right and wrong.
We should be able to come here and talk openly without someone trying to make us feel ashamed, or tell us were a sinner.
True there should be no judging!
And couldnt it heal its self over time? Thats how our bodies stay alive it through healing
repetitive anal sex could lead to "leakage" and by repetitive i mean like thats how you make your living. And if you do your kegel sizes like a good girl this should not be a problem. i have anal with my boyfriend at least once a month and have grown to enjoy it especially with some front door help ie. my rabbit. make sure you are well lubed. anal eaze is good for you but will make your partners penis numb so whats the point? i find that laying in on the left side makes insertion a bit easier. oh and by the way if you believe it's a sin don't do it. i really loathe religious discussions.
we all go a little mad sometimes
Bookmarks