Anal Sex = Bigger Butt??

[PixieDuzt]

I am amazed at the prevalence of urban myths being passed along in this thread as fact! Not only am I, most likely, younger than most of the women in here, I am apparently more informed. I am a sex educator and in my experience there is NOTHING wrong with anal sex.
If you are into it, do it.
If it hurts, stop.
Use LOTS of lube.
Relax!
Enjoy yourself.

Don't stress out thinking that because you have anal sex your is going to start leaking everywhere. It is not. Your anus is a more sophisticated piece of equipment than you think. There are two seperate sphincters in the anal canal, the internal and external. The external is the one that becomes slightly stretched durning anal play and is the one you can consciously control. The internal sphincter is farther in your colon and controls your bowel movements unconciously. You are not going to lose control of your internal AND external sphincters and **** yourself constantly if you engage in anal sex. I know pleanty of gay men with very heathly sex lives and very healthy and WORKING buttholes. You have to hurt yourself HORRIBLY during an anal sex encounter to have leakage. And you should have known better than to engage in something that caused you so much pain. It is only human to shy away from something that pains you.

So, in order to answer the question at hand, no anal sex is not going to make your bigger, thats like saying engaging in tit ****ing is going to make your boobs bigger. It just isn't true.

Oh, and P.S. There is no such thing as sin. There is only good and evil. And anal sex is not evil. Unless it is forced on an unwilling participant, nothing is wrong with any kind of sexual behavior. And letting your man **** you in the is not going to turn him gay; if he isn't already gay, him putting his **** in your is not going to make him. Most men are turned on by and interested in anal sex because it is taboo, and "dirty". It is also uncommon and seemingly wrong so they get a thrill out of it.

And P.P.S. Women! Stop relying on hearsay to build your facts upon. Find reputable sources and investigate on your own. Your girlfriends are not notable sources, nor is Dr. Phil or Oprah.

[Naima]

Thank you, PixieDuzt, for adding some sense here.

No way no how does religion belong on a website, or anywhere else, that is even remotely related to health and health related topics.


God will not punish you for trying/enjoying anal sex.
Your husband will not cheat on you with gay men because he wants anal sex.


I am so flabbergasted at the sheer ignorance of people who think like this.

As women, we are more elevated thinkers than our male counterparts.
Being supportive, accepting and educational (given the correct facts.... ) is something women gather at this board for, not to be harassed by a religious bigot.
Shame on you. Shame, shame, shame on you.

If you have such ignorant, false opinions on what people do in the privacy in their own home, you do not belong here. Period. Sex is a very personal matter, one that is between the two or more people who are sharing that moment.
Religion does not belong in the bedroom.
Ever.

Might I state that being religious is not the problem.
The problem is what people say and do in the name of their chosen religion to oppress other people.

[PixieStixxx]

Thank God you said this. I agree pretty much what PixieDuzt said.

[AntiPrincess]

Maybe what they meant was that performing anal sex will make your butt bigger. I can understand the logic in that assumption...ya know, all that thrusting is bound to give the glutes a good workout. And who doesn't want nice, firm glutes? I should totally strap it on more often...

And by the way, because it can never be mentioned enough, lube LUBE LUBE! Yes, absolutely, if you have anal without lube, with a partner who isn't going to respect your levels of pleasure and pain, you can injury yourself with anal. But, guess what? Dry vaginal sex can hurt like a mother, too. So invest in some good lube. You can even buy it at Wal-Mart these days.

And for the record, my husband totally prefers being on the giving end of vaginal opposed to anal (although he does occasionally enjoy receiving).

[Iggy]

If anal sex makes your butt bigger than my butt should be huge.

*checking butt*

Nope still a size four.

[housewife]

As I read this I was horrified. First off my husband and I have had anal sex plenty of times before. 1. MY butt is NOT bigger 2. My husband still prefers vaginal sex over anal sex anyday. So for you to say for sure or guaranteed you are lying. Just because you believe somthing to be true doesn't mean it is true. Shame on you for bringing up religion into then putting in lies. If you wanna convince someone to believe in whats right and wrong then put in things that are the truth. And lastly what happens between a husband and a wife in thier bedroom between them is not a sin.

you chose to talk this way, then take this:

SHAME ON YOU SINNER for having anal sex, even with your husband that does not make it lawful.


have fun eternally in the hellfire for making fun of the religion,

[housewife]

If anal sex makes your butt bigger than my butt should be huge.

*checking butt*

Nope still a size four.

NO . I meant the hole .

[chairman]

have fun eternally in the hellfire for making fun of the religion,

i'm wondering which is worse, anal sex or a blatantly unloving attitude.

[PixieDuzt]

I just wonder how you get to be a "VIP member" when you are of absolutely no help to anyone. Unless you consider religious scare tactics help.....

[housewife]

i'm wondering which is worse, anal sex or a blatantly unloving attitude.

Anal sex brings down God's wrath