im with delicious105,i watch and enjoy it but also take mentall notes on how he like to be touched.for some reason though i can not completely relax when im masterbating in front of him.he has no idea though,i guess i play it off well.
I have mixed feelings about masturbating in front of my girl, on the one hand, she says she loves watching, and that she loves the idea of watching without me knowing she's there...
In reality though, it generally makes me feel uncomfortable, pressured, and less relaxed generally, and generally makes me force it to an end before the point of it being as pleasurable as it could be.
Example, if she's sleepy and wants to go to bed, and I want sex, she might tell me to masturbate. In that situation, she's lying there trying to get to sleep, making me even feel like an inconvenience. And then she'll say something about it making her feel unneeded afterwards, or something. I avoid it now.
If it's a fluid part of sex, though, it's great/fine.
I think he thinks of it as private. He doesn't want me to feel bad by seeing how much he enjoys it. I think he thinks I might take that personally....so he won't really do it in front of me. He only recently agreed to do it a minute here and there...but not anywhere near to finish with it. I see how much he enjoys it, but he is very private about it. I can't say that doesn't bother me, but that's the way it is. Perhaps in time, it will change...
to watch it is very sexy
I've never seen anyone do it (well porn), but it turns me on to think about it. My boyfriend will start to touch himself because he knows it gets me going, but he's not comfortable to actually masturbate in front of me. Fair enough.
I also enjoy watching it very much its a huge turn on to watch him do it and have him shoot on my body. We mutualy masterbate quite a bit also.
its a show to watch
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