When I have wonderful sex with my girlfriend, many times I can't cum with a condom on. But I have no problem without one -- as is the case with many men, but has any tried insert KY jelly into the condom before it goes on the penis?
DO NOT put KY in the condom...if you've ever noticed, the inside of the condom is dry, while the outside is moist and lubricated - that's so it's fits snug and stays ON...putting KY inside the condom will only loosen it up...
What you may want to do is try different condoms - maybe lambskin or other types...
Interestingly opinion on this seems to be divided on the various websites.Certainly not all condoms are un-lubricated on the inside as at least two manufacturers websites mention the nature of the lube used on the inside of their products. As for other sites some mention the use of (water based) lube inside the condom for improved sensation and others mention the possibility of the condom falling off. Others again suggest lube inside as a precaution against splitting the condom. Sounds like you can't do right for doing wrong in someone's view.
On balance I would consider using a water based lube and doubling up on the retention
by using a **** ring. That way you can give it a try without running into any of the usual objections.
I totally hate condoms, and generally have trouble with them.
When I do use them (gf forgot to take her pill or something) then I do put a little bit of lube in the condom, it doesn't make it fall off or anything, it's easier to put on and it probably (may be psychological) feels better.
But then, wouldn't want it to break or anything - but hey, there's always the day-after pill for disasters. Just grind it up and mix with coffee LOL
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