Men on women's forums - women on mens

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I would like to say that i have enjoyed reading the men's responses to threads on this forum.

Why? I have always stated that i think it is ok, to me, each woman is asking if creating a thread for an answer, why does he do that, how do i gain an orgasm, how do i get through this?

To date, sure there has been the odd, one that makes silly comments but i can rattle of 4 names at the moment that i have read their posts twice. WHY? Because women as i have stated are emotional creates they take everything to heart, did she mean? She wouldn't know!!! Thanks i needed to hear that, well now i look at things differently....

And, oh goodness, i just said all of that, and some man read it!!!! FEAR...

But when those that actually understand share their thoughts, it's amazing, as that's the real answer we want to know, WHY? and who better to answer honestly than a man who can read that thread and say, been there and it was because....

Experience is everything, learning is everything, there is a place for everyone.

Congratulations for being a woman's forum allowing males to contribute...

I myself personally have only ever experienced male conversation to be equal and women to challenge.... It's been a part of my life, all of my life.

I can see the need to have their opinons added, it is just common sense, really.

I have also noted that some are not hear to learn, but to add their comments as they are well experienced, for that i am eternally grateful.

Perhaps therefore, a new subject men talking to women, should be created, of course it means a lot more monitoring so not sure about the title, but their comments to me have always been welcome since i joined and listened to, as who else better in some situations knows the answers?

Just my thought....

I have had a journey here.... Fortunately, i am very secure with myself, and don't take to heart what replies i may receive, everyone is entitled to their thoughts and opinions and again that is what this is all about...

Be nice to read lots more daily of course, encourage those "scared" to speak, maybe a slight change of introduction, that lets people see that we don't know your name, who you are, speak.............

But well done, it's helped me, and made me laugh at times and been very, very interesting.................

CW

[WH Admin]

CHANDLERS WISH,

Thank you for the suggestion. Our site is ALWAYS open to suggestions no matter what it is or who it comes from. And yes, this was the right place to post it.

Your idea is a good one, in my opinion, but there are some downfalls to it. It is good in that a lot of people do not realize that using this forum as a registered member, technically IS anonymous. It's up to the member to choose their screen name and what information they want to share. I don't know who any of you are other then what you share with me. So it's a little unnecessary to have the anonymous option, but I can see how people still worry about it. I have people emailing me all the time worried about their privacy. People who do not know any better can be scared to post their private thoughts and not all people can muster up the courage to do otherwise.

The only way to allow people to really do that would be to allow "guests" to post freely. Otherwise, if you are signed in, you aren't really anonymous after all. The problem with that is we already battle SPAM on a daily basis. It's never-ending. The only way we can control spam is by only allowing registered members to post. At this time, there is no way to allow registered users to choose if they post anonymously in select threads.

I hope this gives everyone a better understanding of how that works. Again, thanks for the suggestion!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Thanks Jessica, i did read the rules but truthfully, couldn't locate anything in regards to those questions which you have answered.

Good bad or indifferent, it's nice to be able to include a suggestion but thanks for that comment.

Know of course, i'm more knowledgeable, ...........