male ego

[Kittie0251]

so i recently told my fiance that we should try something alittle different in the bedroom and he got all defensive saying that I dont enjoy our intimacy..or that he doenst please me but that is not the case..now i feel as though his sex drive suddenly disappeared because of my comment..any ideas of how to get him past thinking that i dont enjoy his love?

[C]

so i recently told my fiance that we should try something alittle different in the bedroom and he got all defensive saying that I dont enjoy our intimacy..or that he doenst please me but that is not the case..now i feel as though his sex drive suddenly disappeared because of my comment..any ideas of how to get him past thinking that i dont enjoy his love?

Get out of the bedroom....Attack him somewhere else...Before you disrobe, put some rosy glow at the end of your nipples...Make them stand out....While making dinner or going out have a short skirt on...No panties...Let him enjoy this sight...When you get back home tell him you want him to take his co*k out of his pants...You want him to unzipper and walk around like that...You want to see how gorgeous he is....While doing this bend over a chair...Leave yourself wide open and see if he hits the bulls eye....Honey, I could go on and on as there are so many wonderful things a woman can do to a man....Ah, for all the wonderful joys of sex.....Sure can keep a marriage hot....Best to you..Caroline

[CHANDLERS WISH]

so i recently told my fiance that we should try something alittle different in the bedroom and he got all defensive saying that I dont enjoy our intimacy..or that he doenst please me but that is not the case..now i feel as though his sex drive suddenly disappeared because of my comment..any ideas of how to get him past thinking that i dont enjoy his love?

Hi Kittie0251.

I recall your other threads, one about losing an engagement ring and the other about feeling a tad jealous and worried about your breast size.

Thing is, you are trying to hard... It's not your fault you lost the ring, although i would see if a plumber can find it down that plug hole, it may be possible but didn't he say " you don't love him now" or enough, for losing it?

And, now he's saying you don't enjoy your "intimacy".

Maybe that is why you feel you want breast enlargements hun.

I would be saying to you, don't marry him, he sounds insecure and making you insecure as a result...

However, it also may be that the ring is lost that he is still feeling a sadness there and you kind of did a bad timing thing as he hasn't gotten over that yet, assuming that was recent as your thread was and you are trying ways to make him realise that you do love him.

Just blattenly tell him, i know that the meaning of the ring is significant and i am hurting as well, it's not just you and you can't blame me for something that is out of my control, now i'm trying to seduce you and you because i love you and your not forgiving.

There is no other way i can prove my love to you other than in the bedroom, our intimacy is just fine, if you feel you can appreciate and accept what happened was a mistake and lets just find a way together to either locate it, or work towards a new one, it is gold, just like you!!! ( hope it was gold).....!!

You have done nothing wrong so stop trying to spice things up he needs a reality check ....

CW

[C]

so i recently told my fiance that we should try something alittle different in the bedroom and he got all defensive saying that I dont enjoy our intimacy..or that he doenst please me but that is not the case..now i feel as though his sex drive suddenly disappeared because of my comment..any ideas of how to get him past thinking that i dont enjoy his love?

I am sorry that I did not see the posts that CW did on worried about your bust size and your engagement ring...I just read the headings and go from there...So forget about my post but this is a very sexual and hot thing to do....Kind of daring but I love daring sex...

How about getting him in the car...Go to a somewhat private place, not real private as you need to be daring to get the kick...Then have him come over to the passenger side of the car and get in...Unzip him and pull it out...Of course, you have to play with it for a minute or two or else four hours...Then have a dress or skirt on and climb on him and ride him like a mad woman...That is one of the most sexual things as you are doing the forbidden in the daylight...Chancing, chance...Knowing that not one person is around yet it is the mystic about it....It is very erotic....and fun....and I am getting horny so I am going back to bed...TC, C

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Hi Kittie0251.

I recall your other threads, one about losing an engagement ring and the other about feeling a tad jealous and worried about your breast size.

Thing is, you are trying to hard... It's not your fault you lost the ring, although i would see if a plumber can find it down that plug hole, it may be possible but didn't he say " you don't love him now" or enough, for losing it?

And, now he's saying you don't enjoy your "intimacy".

Maybe that is why you feel you want breast enlargements hun.

I would be saying to you, don't marry him, he sounds insecure and making you insecure as a result...

However, it also may be that the ring is lost that he is still feeling a sadness there and you kind of did a bad timing thing as he hasn't gotten over that yet, assuming that was recent as your thread was and you are trying ways to make him realise that you do love him.

Just blattenly tell him, i know that the meaning of the ring is significant and i am hurting as well, it's not just you and you can't blame me for something that is out of my control, now i'm trying to seduce you and you because i love you and your not forgiving.

There is no other way i can prove my love to you other than in the bedroom, our intimacy is just fine, if you feel you can appreciate and accept what happened was a mistake and lets just find a way together to either locate it, or work towards a new one, it is gold, just like you!!! ( hope it was gold).....!!

You have done nothing wrong so stop trying to spice things up he needs a reality check ....

CW

And on a second note, you were replying to that thread regarding her feeling insecure i just re-read it, and you jumped that one, but still don't be now either, as i said, it's not your fault you lost the ring, he shouldn't be blaming you....

CW

[Kittie0251]

i guess im gonna have to talk to him about that ring so it doesnt cause anymore problems..thanks so much for the advice

[AlleyWay]

A man's ego can be very sensitive. You just have to be very delicate. Just take things slowly.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Thanks Alleyway for all your posts, unfortunately though, again, this thread is 2008, the OP has long gone and so your words are well, not going to reach her.

Please again, look at the top left hand side of both Threads and last posts to ascertain if your assisting with your answers, or wasting your time.

Thread closed.

CW