Would men be better lovers if pegged once?

[owlhunter]

My lady pegs me. We both enjoy it. It is NOT about me pretending to be a woman and vice versa. It is not about abuse or anything like that.

It is not really any different than when she sits on my face and just really uses me to have an O. I like that. she can let herself go, I'm part of the game plan (always remember, sex is a TEAM sport).

Now madame does like doing it, she really gets into being the one "in control" - not in a bad way, but a fun way. And if she is drunk enough she say "To with them lub, bed over!"And she means it!

Do I think getting pegged makes me a better lover to her? No, not in our case. But that is because we have been VERY lucky to have a very open relationship where we talk a lot about our wants and desires. It has come slowly and required a lot of work. But certainly work every bit of effort.

[ILuvHim]

and do the women really respect the man they are banging from behind? or is it a turn of fair play? personally i think its pretty weird that a woman wants to put a strap on and do their man.....why not make him wear a skirt and high heals? and you can sit back and out your hands down your pants and burp.....personally i think its very weird that a man wants to be bent over and treated like a woman.......maybe he is gay? or has fantasies of being with a man? ever think of that? personally its just wrong that a husband or BF wants to be bent over.....next time put some perfume on him and call him Peggy

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Seeing as you put question marks... Everyone is different ILuvHim and people like to try different things as much as you want to try or do try "choking"... It's not weird, it's a matter of "CHOICE".

There would be lots of people that see choking as not part of a sexual act as well.

People are all different.

Non-understanding of people's choices and preferences in life is sometimes difficult to comprehend something that "YOU PERSONALLY" would not do, or think is right..

But that is why the world is made up of all different people and that those people, have choices in life, things they love, and things they hate.

It doesn't make a man gay, he is simply exploring things as much as you will later, ie) G-SPOT ORGASM, which seeing as such few women have done it, a lot have no idea of that experience. It is simular for a man.

All i can say on that note, is that it is the most awesome orgasm a woman can have, so why would a man not want to feel such extacy?

CW

[rcoreyus]

to ILuvHim: All this is about fun. Pegging can be done with or without dominance - both are fine. He may be completely straight - or maybe he DOES have fantasies about having sex with another man - also fine. If he wants to wear a dress -fine. If he wants to dress up like little-bo-peep, and have her crawl around on the floor going "BAAA" thats fine to. As long as both enjoy it who cares what it is called.

[Phoebee]

I think it can be a twisted as you want to make it but for us its pretty straight. As I said in a previous post homosexual men "mostly" do Felatio. So if you go down on your husband that is "gay sex" your doing *Assuming you want to hand over the act to gay men and Lesbians. *Which I don't.

Sure if my husband wanted to shave his legs, wear a padded bra and do this it would be different. I frankly don't want to make love to a transvestite. I don't have anything against them but I like men to be men.

I don't doubt that there are people with Gender ID issues that gravitate to Pegging or avoid intercourse and insist it all be oral sex but... I'm just as positive that hetrosexual couples are doing this and enjoying it. Look. Oral sex? Its good. Its not just gay or lesbian people that do it. And for a long time from what I understand Lesbians hated the idea of Strap on Sex because that was "hetro" They were smart enough to figure out that when two women are having "sex" be it oral, or strap on sex or whatever. Its still Lesbian sex.

[ILuvHim]

Seeing as you put question marks... Everyone is different ILuvHim and people like to try different things as much as you want to try or do try "choking"... It's not weird, it's a matter of "CHOICE".

There would be lots of people that see choking as not part of a sexual act as well.

People are all different.

Non-understanding of people's choices and preferences in life is sometimes difficult to comprehend something that "YOU PERSONALLY" would not do, or think is right..

But that is why the world is made up of all different people and that those people, have choices in life, things they love, and things they hate.

It doesn't make a man gay, he is simply exploring things as much as you will later, ie) G-SPOT ORGASM, which seeing as such few women have done it, a lot have no idea of that experience. It is simular for a man.

All i can say on that note, is that it is the most awesome orgasm a woman can have, so why would a man not want to feel such extacy?

CW

First off.... a man and a womans anatomy is different....men don't have orgasms from having plastic dilldos shoved up in there rectum....Also, if Adam and Eve or some other company didn't make these apparatus's for lesbians, men would not ever have thought to have a woman bend him over...so its not natural...and just because you can do something..or choose to do something..doesn't make it right......if a man wants to be pegged, why not be with a man????? whats the difference??? as a woman with a very sexy heterosexual bf that is very open minded about sex told me, if a man wants to be bent over by his gf, then he has some type of issue that needs to be straightened out, its not sexual in nature, something else much deeper. yes prostate stimulation feels great for a man, but why does he feel the urge to be bent over and have a plastic dildo shoved up his rectum???? openmindedness??? i don't think so....please remember something here, men and women are not the same and shouldn't have sex the same.....maybe because we have vaginas and they have penis's?

[Discostu55]

Dude, im totally down for pegging, i'm all for it. And i think it would make men better lovers, they would understand and interpert emotions of a girl better.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

First off.... a man and a womans anatomy is different....men don't have orgasms from having plastic dilldos shoved up in there rectum....Also, if Adam and Eve or some other company didn't make these apparatus's for lesbians, men would not ever have thought to have a woman bend him over...so its not natural...and just because you can do something..or choose to do something..doesn't make it right......if a man wants to be pegged, why not be with a man????? whats the difference??? as a woman with a very sexy heterosexual bf that is very open minded about sex told me, if a man wants to be bent over by his gf, then he has some type of issue that needs to be straightened out, its not sexual in nature, something else much deeper. yes prostate stimulation feels great for a man, but why does he feel the urge to be bent over and have a plastic dildo shoved up his rectum???? openmindedness??? i don't think so....please remember something here, men and women are not the same and shouldn't have sex the same.....maybe because we have vaginas and they have penis's?

See, i am open minded. I wouldn't do it, simple. But that doesn't mean i don't see what others see, feel, it's their decision they are grown up people...

You are entitled not to agree for sure, so as you are debating in sorts: -

In the debating arena we go....

ILuvHim
men don't have orgasms from having plastic dilldos shoved up in there rectum

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How do you know? I think people will beg to differ with you hear in their replies, those whom are "in the know"...

ILuvHim
Also, if Adam and Eve or some other company didn't make these apparatus's for lesbians, men would not ever have thought to have a woman bend him over...so its not natural...

Vibrators are "not natural" either and they weren't made for Lesbians.

Are you suggesting the only form of sex you will ever, ever have, has to be purely with hands, feet, fingers, the wang? Nothing else ever?

I LuvHim
please remember something here, men and women are not the same and shouldn't have sex the same.....maybe because we have vaginas and they have penis's?

So are you saying that there should be no Lesbians either? They can not have same sex?

What would you like them to do, remain a Virgin for the rest of their life, have no love or company because you say they can't have same sex?

That's where open mindedness needs to come into the play.

People are people, just because you don't believe in pegging, or would ever do it, that's your choice like i said.

You don't have to agree, nor like it, nor ever do it.

CW

[Uneeklyme]

First off.... a man and a womans anatomy is different....men don't have orgasms from having plastic dilldos shoved up in there rectum....

Yes they do. Pretty intense ones at that.

Also, if Adam and Eve or some other company didn't make these apparatus's for lesbians, men would not ever have thought to have a woman bend him over...

Adam and Eve have a whole section of dildos and vibrators and oh yea, strap ons for couples labeled for couples in the for couples sections. Many other sights do too. They weren't made just for lesbians

so its not natural...and just because you can do something..or choose to do something..doesn't make it right......

Asphyxia is not natural. So in your way of thinking, not natural...not right...then your just as wrong.

if a man wants to be pegged, why not be with a man????? whats the difference???

The difference is they are not gay and have no desire to be with a man but they want the WOMAN they love and trust to share this with them, to share in their pleasure with this intimate act. The actual physical stimulation for them is incredible and they want that to come from their loving partner. Some men are also openminded enough to feel that if they are going to be asking their partner for anal then they should be perfectly willing to do it as well. I would never ask anyone to do something I wouldn't do myself. Some men have that much respect for their partner or women in general.

as a woman with a very sexy heterosexual bf that is very open minded about sex told me, if a man wants to be bent over by his gf, then he has some type of issue that needs to be straightened out, its not sexual in nature, something else much deeper.

If he was as openminded about sex he would have already touched his own as* and know what pleasure it can bring a man. Assuming and unaccepting and so much in denial would be a red flag to me that there is some type of issue with the one in denial.

yes prostate stimulation feels great for a man, but why does he feel the urge to be bent over and have a plastic dildo shoved up his rectum????

Because prostate stimulation feels great for a man and a plastic (do they even make plastic dildos that aren't gag gifts?) shoved up their rectum is one way to get this stimulation

openmindedness??? i don't think so....

This very statement shows lack of openmindedness

[talk time]

My partner and I tried pegging very recently and he really loved it. We started doing anal not all that long ago and we thought it might be a nice thing for him to be on the recieving end too.

I think it has made us feel much closer. We don't do it all the time but it is just something else to add to our already great sex life, another area to explore. A bite of the forbiden fruit and very sexy.