what do men prefer?

[Fire(m)]

I think that's a good point Jenn33. I believe that it's largely a matter of personal style.

Probably in the 70's, if a woman shaved that area, she'd have been considered a freak. Today she's just normal.

Styles change and the biggest benefit of today is that you have a choice. In todays world you wouldn't be judged by having a bush or nothing at all.

Cheers.

[Sweetness182]

I prefer to be smooth and shaved.
My boyfriend likes it but has asked for a 'landing strip'
He's not getting it. =P

[tristis]

Yeah it just depends on the guy.
My bf at first likes it all shaved so I used to do that but it HURTS when the hair on the mound grows back for me - get those painful red bumps. :[
So I told him too bad haha and I just shave every where besides there [but I keep it trimmed of course not all bushy!] like those outter lip skin thangs. lol I dunno what they're called. labia majora or something.

[CC22]

I shave mine all off except a patch on top. I think I'm just going to shape it and leave a strip. I need to use something else besides a razor because when it grows in it itches and it's driving me crazy. I honestly don't want to use creams unless it's specifially for that area.

[tristis]

I shave mine all off except a patch on top. I think I'm just going to shape it and leave a strip. I need to use something else besides a razor because when it grows in it itches and it's driving me crazy. I honestly don't want to use creams unless it's specifially for that area.

I used to use baby oil for some reason it kinda made it feel better but it still sucked. =/ And I am NOT going to wax that place no way. lol. talk about pain. I wonder if there's nair for it.. Haha they do say the less you wear.. the more you need nair!

[Foreverme25]

I'm not sure how my boyfriend and I got into the discussion a couple of nights ago but he said he would perfer shaved completly. So I'm trying it. We'll see how it goes. I am nervous about the itchyness. I've never had a guy give me an opinion on the subject. If it helps to get him off I'm willing to go there. He would for me if thats what I wanted.

[jessica]

i think you should do what makes you happy. if pleasing your man is it that then go for it. my boyfriend doesn't like it all bushy, he says it doesnt look clean. but he does like hair so i keep it neatly trimed up. he says shaved turns him off because it makes him feel like he is with a little girl. the hair is what makes a woman, a woman. i couldnt agree more.

[jenn33]

Its funny where all of these urban legends started. Such as the notion the "less hair, the cleaner a girl is down there" Personnally I think that is the biggest load of BS I have ever heard. The ONLY thing that factors into how "clean" a woman is ..is her bathing hablits. I have a huge bush, and I assure you I am as "clean" as when I used to shave it bald.

[ILuvHim]

my man prefers it shaved...i like it that way also...i want to start getting a brazilian wax...but i'm scared cuz i heard it really hurts first couple times and you may bruise... so for now i will keep shaving it off...

[tristis]

he says shaved turns him off because it makes him feel like he is with a little girl.

Yeah I used to wonder that - like why do some guys like no hair there?
Is it because of how they just like smooth things or because they secretly have a thing for little girls. Creepy.