she wants brests and stomache done

[69peggee]

hey ladies, just wondering if i could get some input on this topic..................
my girl wants to get her breasts lifted, or implants as well as getting her tummy tucked. she had children young, and has recently had another, and has stretched out tummy and breasts. we don't think that we will have any more children after the last, and she desperatly want to "fix" herself up. i do understand her unhappyness with herself, i love her the way she is, and tell her but for years she has always wanted to get surgery done. aside from the expence, and health concerns she is adamit that she will do it with or without my concent. what are your opinions on this???

[CHANDLERS WISH]

It's obvious regardless of your attempt to tell her she's beautiful in your eyes, she want's and feels the need to be beautiful in hers and she doesn't feel it.

Personally.... Just my "Opinion", i would be aiming at the gym for the stomach and see the results that I created all by myself and feel wow, then if the boobs don't match, sure I'd get them done.. Don't need to. But I'm not against plastic surgery at all.

I just feel a tad worried about tummy tucks, further scars, things go wrong and that she may feel even more down at the end of it if not done right.

Read too many stories i guess.

But, also from the reward side of the thrill of achievement and beauty if she was to just say it "will work" and work over the next few months at diets and gym and walking to see what she can achieve by herself first.

That's just my personal thoughts.

CW

[69peggee]

ive gone over the gym and fitness thing and she agrees with it to a point, but her responce is that she still cant wear a bikini, "saggy breasts" and way too much "loose skin" on her stomache i do realize that the gym is the best health alternative but will not pick and lift her in the spots that she desires. what does it cost to get these procedures done, and what is the recovery for them???????

[toneitup08]

well a silicone in her chest is def not going to be healthy in the long run. Also getting her tummy done doesnt necessarily mean it will stay that way. I think you should try to convince her to not get the surgery done becaues in the long run it will affect her health