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    I am trying to lose about 15 lbs... Now I know that it's going to take time, but I kind of feel like my body isn't cooperating I've been trying to eat less, not eat after a certain time, etc. I also have been doing Zumba 2-3 times a week, going to gym 2 times a week and then walking 1-2 days a week... I am getting at least 5-6 days in of exercise every week... I've been back on my "hardcore" workout routine for almost 3 weeks and I've only lost 2 lbs

    I know it's going to take time, and don't get me wrong, I feel FANTASTIC! But I just thought starting out maybe I'd have an initial bump of about 3-4 lbs the first week then slow down to a lb or so after that...

    Any suggestions on other things I might be able to do??

    Right now I am eating about 1600 calories a day. But when I work out, I try to burn at least 350-400 calories at a time and with Zumba, I'd estimate I'm burning about 600-700 per time at least... Should I try to drop by calorie intake more?
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    Keep your calories where they are at. Any lower and you won't be fueling your body after exercise.

    What are you eating?

    How long are your walks on your walk days and how fast are you going? Try adding in bursts of jogging in every few minutes. Walking is good for you but as far as weight loss, it will have to be more intense to really burn a lot of calories. If your walk is typically 30-40 minutes, add in one minute of jogging every 3 minutes. Work on doing that for a week and then extend the jog time and make the rest time shorter. Jog of 90 seconds every 3 minutes, then up it to jogging for 90 seconds every 2-2.5 mintues. Over a month or so, work up to jogging for a full 3 minutes with one minute of walking in between. Hopefully in a couple of months you'll be jogging for the full 30-40 minutes.
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    Thanks Sourpuss... I do bursts of jogging sometimes...Generally when I walk, I try to do at least 2 miles but I really like to do at least 3.5 when I do it. At the gym I usually do the elliptical for about 30 minutes with a 5 minutes cool down and I generally can get about 2.5 "miles" done on that during that time....

    Food depends on the day... I am trying to make sure I'm getting lots of veggies and fruits and honestly started eating chicken again recently because I didn't feel like with my schedule it was easy for me to incorporate a lot of protein in and fish is expensive after a while...

    I think I might be getting too many carbs honestly... That is a struggle for me... But I am not eating fast food or eating after 9:00 pm at all... I am trying to do more weight lifting (usually do at least 15-20 minutes on gym days) and I can tell my muscles are getting sore...

    I am hoping that within another couple of weeks that it'll start paying off, but I will definitely try to start jogging more again... The problem is I don't have anyone that will jog with me, but plenty of people who will walk... I've been combining my social and workout time quite a bit.
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    That's good. You're doing it right, it will just take time. The weight will come off slower with the lifting, but that's good. You should really just measure yourself, that would be a better judge of your progress.

    When you're on your walks you can still add in jogging. I do it with my friends as well. Instead of jogging, do sprint intervals. If you're walking in a neighborhood sprint the length of one block and then sprint (and really as fast as you can) back to where your friend is. Then walk at a fast pace and repeat every other block. As long as it's intense, then the short bursts will help.

    If you need more protein try rice and beans together. I cook up a big batch of rice and then just add a can of beans. You can keep it in the fridge and keep reheating it. Together they make a complete protein with tons of fiber. Just remember to not go overboard on the rice.
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    That sounds like a great idea on the rice and beans! Maybe I can throw in some peppers and onions too Thanks Sourpuss...

    I know it's going to take time, and a pound a week isn't bad...it's going the right direction... I feel like in another couple of weeks when I can really tell how I've improved and start to *see* the muscle a bit again, it'll make me feel better...

    Just gotta push on!
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    Trust me, I'm not one who comments on others weight, but if your body's comfortable where it's at (i.e. not losing at a certain rate or plateauing) then why push it to something it doesn't want to go right now.

    Besides, you look good.
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    1600... depends on your weight, height and resting metobolic rate... for me they tell me 1600-1700 calories is what I need to keep my body in maintanance so I do have to drop lower than that when I want to lose weight... I usually go about 1400ish. Never take your body below 1200 thats pretty much the bare minimum.

    They have a lot of websites that you can put in your weight, height, age, etc... and it gives you an estimate for how many calories you'd need to eat to lose weight, maintain weight etc... a trip to the nutrionist for metabolic testing would give you a much more accurate number though.

    You might not be burning 400 cals, those machines overestimate... A LOT. Even still though burning 200 cals a day is pretty dang sufficient. While eating only 1600... that should give you a decent deficit for a 1-2 pound per week weightloss.

    Don't forget that when you increase a work out your joints retain water for a while... so sometimes that scale won't show your efforts for a couple of weeks, don't let that detour you.

    Our bodies are in a constant quest for homeostasis... not losing or gaining. It'll fight you a little at first sometimes. The more overweight you are the quicker those pounds come off as your body KNOWS it needs to take it off... (thats why biggest loser show always has such big weightloss numbers each week, the bigger the person, the faster the loss when there is a calorie deficit)... the closer you are to your ideal weight... the more work it takes to pull those pounds off -- but they will come off, its science. Create a deficit and your body takes what it needs from fat.

    But if you don't give your body the right nutrients, it will take what it needs (protein etc) from muscle and it isn't picky which muscle so it can also be from any organ it feels like which is way starvation is DANGEROUS.

    Be sure you are getting the adequate serving of protein and nutrients... don't overestimate how much your work out burns (sometimes ppl will treat themselves to way more extra food than they need thinking they burned more than they did)... and check to make sure that 1600 is adequate.

    You can always tinker... try a week at 1500, then a week at 1600... then back to 1500 etc... writing down your weight weekly, writing down your calories daily... then go back in a month and see how you are doing and what is working best for you.

    Be sure to always re-introduce and/or reduce calories SLOWLY... only changing 50/100 calories one way or the other that way you have time to see the impact it has on your body... both in weightloss and how you FEEL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pretzel View Post
    Trust me, I'm not one who comments on others weight, but if your body's comfortable where it's at (i.e. not losing at a certain rate or plateauing) then why push it to something it doesn't want to go right now.

    Besides, you look good.
    Thank you Pretzel, but my pictures were about 10 lbs ago I am not trying to be super thin... My body doesn't like it and I dont' fight it in that regard but I do want to get back to fitting comfortably in my wardrobe

    I appreciate the compliment though
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    HD, I've been using the Livestrong "daily plate" thing online... It tells me that to lose a lb a week I need to eat about 1680. I am eating 1600ish...I am also trying to vary it more since I've heard that your body gets "used to" the same calories...so on like a Saturday I might have 1800 calories then have 1350-1400 the next day to "average" 1600 over the course of the week.

    I would like to do more workouts as I think that would really help but it's just hard right now because I still have summer school so I am squeezing in as much as I can... and I also don't want my body to get too used to an excessive amount of exercise because honestly I can't keep it up when classes start in the fall. I'm trying to find some balance. I just would really like to lose this 15 lbs then play with it a couple weeks to see where my "happy spot" is to maintain.

    On the calories on the machine, I usually put my weight as less than it actually is and round down. I do realize that they aren't accurate entirely

    I'm sure it's just going to take a few weeks to figure out what's going on and start cooperating I'm just being impatient because I feel like I've been completely busting my tail the last few weeks. I mean, I am dripping with sweat (great mental picture I know) after I leave the gym and Zumba and I really try to give 100% plus more than I think I can at times. Just need to figure out that happy place...If I can keep doing a lb a week I won't complain. I know when I get muscle back that will help my resting Basal Metabolic rate too
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    Its sometimes a waiting a game, and a lot of tinkering when it comes to losing. I understand your frustration. A couple of months ago I increased my work outs so much that I added an extra 200 calories a day to my diet (I'm trying, myself, to lose another 10lbs) after a month I re-evaluted and saw that I didn't LOSE 1 single freaking pound. All that extra work and NOTHING. Frustrating. I overestimated, I assume, how many extra calories I could give myself with that extra work.

    So I had to tinker again, and reduce that by another 100 and think I've found my sweet spot again for a 1-2 pound loss per week.

    At LEAST you can take comfort in the fact that you arent going to gain excessivly while watching things so close, at worse you might not lose in a week, but at least you'll maintain where you are while working to go to the next level.

    I envy the people that just don't have to worry about this junk, but I am not one of them. I have to watch what I eat... and always will have to watch what I eat. When I eat whatever I want, I gain. Thanks Mom and Dad , Rawr. lol.
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