This is something I tell everyone I know that is trying to lose weight... don't consider an indulgence in something you shouldn't have a 'mistake'... when you decide you're going to have that slice of cake at a birthday party. Do it consciously. Do it knowing its not something you do often.
The downward spiral that follows feeling like you 'messed up' can throw a persons whole diet plan off track. The reality is that one peice of cake now and then at a birthday party doesn't ruin the diet. If you have only an occasional indulgence, your body can handle that... but generally guilt sets in after 'messing up' and with that guilt comes more eating, "today's ruined, might as well start tomorrow... I'll go head and have ANOTHER peice of cake"... waking up the next day, feeling terrible about yourself.. thinking - I blew it last night. Ah well might as well eat what I want today too since this whole week is shot.
Its a vicious cycle. Its when we learn that even on a diet you are allowed to have a treat now and then... but the important thing is to realize , be aware, that you are doing it. That there is nothing to forgive... no reason to dump your diet til next week because of one peice of cake. Simply enjoy it, guilt free... as the reward it is since you don't do that sort of thing on a routine bases. Wash the plate and move on with your day... still on your diet... still proud of yourself.




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