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    Default Curious.

    Am very sorry if this sounds so negative, and neither do I wish it to appear that I am in any way running this forum down, but I am very curious if not bewildered to know why members here do not or cannot be bothered to say Hi/hello and welcome to new members.

    I have now been a member here for quite a few days and have noticed that I have managed to receive just two welcome messages (gratefully received) which I must admit I find a little surprising considering the membership here, however as some consolation I see that I am not alone as those before me and the few after me have received just about the same number.

    I do wonder whether this inspires new members to contribute regularly to the forum, or if they are perhaps like me and think, well if these established members can't bring themselves to send a message of greeting, then is it worth my while even being here.

    Again I apologise if I have offended or upset anyone in posting this, and dare I say I will not be holding my breath to seeing any posts of comments relating to this either.
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    Hello Solitaire
    And welcome to the forum, a lot of regulars here retrieve posts from our "whats new" section and posts in this category are only there for a certain time frame. Unless members specifically go to the welcome forum it is hard to sometimes see where new posts are.

    Dont be discouraged if you dont get many replies after a short period. A lot of our members only log in once a week maybe even once a month.

    Give it some time and if you have any questions feel free to message any mod

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    There are 800 odd viewers, 100 or so members, those come on when they have time and it's the members that say hi, but when it is in the last few posts.. which is what x.st.angel is referring to.. So she is correct, unless that is what you are looking for, advising for, giving opinions for, it is a hit and miss

    Your threads, have to have questions that the people can ponder and answer if broad they will just skim through and say it's just venting, or a comment but no question

    Post on other threads, comments I am sure we will all get to know you, your a very deep person who has a lot to offer...

    I think x.st. angels has answered well

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    you must believe!

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    Hello Solitaire,

    Don't take offence, some folks have a certain hangout and may have not see you or any of your posts yet, give it time as I'm sure there is nothing ill meant by it.

    This is BY FAR the most welcoming forum I have ever been a part of, and I'm relatively new as well.
    You will find some of the most fantastic helpful people here. It's just amazing!

    Welcome!
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    Yes dont feel bad I am new too and felt the same way. Even done what you did and made a post wondering if I am doing something wrong. I have a post that I updated a couple of days ago have alot of views but no response recently and yes a couple of people messaged me and gave great advice like Chandler Wish she is great and gives great advice. We have to wait and be patient for them to see them for there are alot of posts on here. So please dont get discouraged. I know when we are feeling a certain way we are needing immediate answers, this was advice giving to me and I recognize that all that make posts are looking for the same answers. So Welcome and you will find much enjoyment here just reading over some of the others posts and answers. i have learned alot from others posts.

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