Why did he act like he wanted to see me again when he actually doesn't?

[CandiceOs]

I've been friends with benefits with this guy for a year now we met last year on a dating app. The last time I saw him I told him that the next time I saw him my hair would be different. And I told him I'd call him and let him know when I'd like to see him again. And he said ok I also mentioned that I wanted to try a position with him and he said he could try it. I told him I knew he wasn't used to having sex with a curvy woman. And he said "Well I guess I'll have to get used to it" I don't know what he meant by this.

He told me had a high sex drive but that he controls it. I asked him why he doesn't ask me to come over for sex and he said because he's busy. He's an electrician and he told me he works Mon-Saturday but has Sundays off. His mother has cancer and he does look after her but still.

I called him the other day and he didn't answer so I'm not sure why he acted like he wanted to see me again when I was there in person. If he doesn't want to see me anymore then why doesn't he just say it?

[Glasgowgal]

Find someone who desires you babe. I'm curvy myself and never had a man to get used to it

[Marknblue]

I think if he isn’t loving you properly I highly recommend communicating your feelings to him. If he cares about YOU, it will be obvious. if he doesn’t, that too will probably be obvious. Afterwords you have a choice. If he isn’t receptive to your feelings, he might not be the best option for you.

[Wednesday L.F.]

If I may be blunt, it sounds like to him, you are an option and not a priority. Not unusual in an FWB situation.

There’s nothing wrong with that in the abstract, but you may want to adjust your expectations accordingly. You can try asking him to be more forthcoming, but usually the upside of FWB is that there’s no relationship drama.

[summer21031985]

What are the benefits which one can get in friend with benefit relationship ?

[Wednesday L.F.]

"Friends with benefits" is a term where people who are not romantically involved get together for sexual activity without any implied or direct commitment.

[summer21031985]

Wednesday L.F. Thank you dear for your explanation and clearing the doubt.