Spice Up Marriage Ideas?

[Rayn]

Spicing things up is great and there's an infinite number of options available to do so. But sometimes you just need to go back to basics. My wife and i are pretty adventureous (once we even had incogntio sex in the crowd of a Metallica concert). But honestly, some of the best sex we have is fairly vanilla. Slow paced with two or three positions. Those are probably the most intimate.

[Kate_Reed]

did it in car after child was asleep one night
also, went to basement where he has an office as he was afraid to use our bedroom since bedrooms right next to each other
sometimes, he left work early to be home before kid got off elementary bus....he'd text "be ready"
I really liked when he left work early cause it was hard to get time alone when kid was young (sadly, we went a no. of yrs without sex after we became parents)
another time, we risked it at a hotel with child asleep on other side of room! we also have a "sex" game which tells you what to do when you land on each spot

Wow, that's hard, now I will value my time without marriage more)

[MrMr]

For me the hottest things involve bringing in other people. Not to have three somes or group sex but either watching or being naked in front of you. I'm lucky I have some close friends who are comfortable doing things like that. Our main enjoyment comes from others being turned on by what we are doing rather than attracted to someone else.

[G-Wagon]

I dont' know what kind of neighbourhood you live in, myb you can try outside in the cool breeze. This has to be when everyone is sleeping and it is dark outside. You can have the car out so u can use the hood for support. U can have 1 leg on the hood and the other on the ground. What ever u want. Or u can bounce on his lap while he sits on a chair without arm rests.

[jns]

My man is having problems so ayong hard. He use to use drugs introviniously. But I’ve had a lot of guys that did but didn’t hv that problem. As I too am a old addict. I what can we do?

Welcome to WH Interactive forums. As men get older, staying hard can be a problem. Mentally it can become self fulfilling with the thoughts of losing the erection actually helping cause the loss of erection. Medications and illnesses can be part of it. Can he still maintain an erection to ejaculation while masturbating? Has he tried any of the prescription medicines such as Viagra and if so, what were the results?

[Nickie]

My man is having problems so ayong hard. He use to use drugs introviniously. But I’ve had a lot of guys that did but didn’t hv that problem. As I too am a old addict. I what can we do?

[Zoë T.]

Toys are also a great way to spice up sex with a long time parter. **** rings, anal beads, vibrators of any kind. If you haven't already you should check out wearable panties. Book a date night with your sitter, put them on, give your hubby the controller, and watch him watch you go crazy! I've also found that erotic massages are a really sweet and special way to connect with your partner. Like, if you really wanted to show him your appreciation one night (if he deserves it that is ), put on relaxing music, set up some mood lighting, oil him up and rub him down all over. Give him something unforgettable that he'll want to reciprocate. It feels so good to make your partner feel good!

[CapeCRunner]

Welcome back CapeCRunner ! Always good to see you!

I have an idea that I've been saving up for my man...maybe you can use it too. My guy lives in an apartment building with difficult access, so it would be hard to just show up and surprise him. However, we cook meals together occasionally, and what I intend to do is this:
Before I show up at his place, I'll stash some sexy clothes in the closet down the hall from his apartment. While making dinner, I'm going to say that we don't have any (make up some spice or milk, or whatever) and tell him I'm running out to get it. Instead, I'll go down the hall to that closet, slip into my sexy, sleezy little get up, wait a few minutes, and then go back and knock on his door. He will know that I've taken his keys, so he'll be wondering who is actually knocking on his door...and then I'll be standing there.
He's a straight-laced guy, so the fact that I've been so naughty in the hall will be enough to send him over the edge...

It's kinda silly, but I'm running out of ideas with my man...

You could do some variation of that. Maybe say you have to run out for milk for the morning, then just change in the car, go back and knock on your front door and flash him, or whatever

If you have a house and garage, I once pulled into the garage and after I turned off the motor, I put the door back down and got out of the car. He asked me what I was doing, so I stood in front of the car, with the lights still on, and started stripping. He got the idea and joined It was a great time, but the hood of the car was a bit warm - have a heavy blanket to throw over it, or make sure it was a short trip, so the hood isn't uncomfortable!

Well that seems fun! I like that idea. I like play harmless pranks so I think I'd be getting a kick out of it leading up to the big reveal.. it's a cute idea. and thanks for the welcome back

[atskitty2]

Welcome back CapeCRunner ! Always good to see you!

I have an idea that I've been saving up for my man...maybe you can use it too. My guy lives in an apartment building with difficult access, so it would be hard to just show up and surprise him. However, we cook meals together occasionally, and what I intend to do is this:
Before I show up at his place, I'll stash some sexy clothes in the closet down the hall from his apartment. While making dinner, I'm going to say that we don't have any (make up some spice or milk, or whatever) and tell him I'm running out to get it. Instead, I'll go down the hall to that closet, slip into my sexy, sleezy little get up, wait a few minutes, and then go back and knock on his door. He will know that I've taken his keys, so he'll be wondering who is actually knocking on his door...and then I'll be standing there.
He's a straight-laced guy, so the fact that I've been so naughty in the hall will be enough to send him over the edge...

It's kinda silly, but I'm running out of ideas with my man...

You could do some variation of that. Maybe say you have to run out for milk for the morning, then just change in the car, go back and knock on your front door and flash him, or whatever

If you have a house and garage, I once pulled into the garage and after I turned off the motor, I put the door back down and got out of the car. He asked me what I was doing, so I stood in front of the car, with the lights still on, and started stripping. He got the idea and joined It was a great time, but the hood of the car was a bit warm - have a heavy blanket to throw over it, or make sure it was a short trip, so the hood isn't uncomfortable!

[CapeCRunner]

did it in car after child was asleep one night
also, went to basement where he has an office as he was afraid to use our bedroom since bedrooms right next to each other
sometimes, he left work early to be home before kid got off elementary bus....he'd text "be ready"
I really liked when he left work early cause it was hard to get time alone when kid was young (sadly, we went a no. of yrs without sex after we became parents)
another time, we risked it at a hotel with child asleep on other side of room! we also have a "sex" game which tells you what to do when you land on each spot

Those are good ideas and definitely doable. I like the leaving work idea. House to yourself, no rush and no need to be quiet. Plus it would be something to look forward to all day. Sometimes we dirty text back and forth but then it won't amount to anything later. I've been in the mood the past few days so I need to get something working for us lol