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    #16
    Oh
    That's too bad

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      #17
      Good news Kitty and Popcorn! I saw her yesterday...I went in shortly before closing so it was not busy at all and got a chance to chat with her for a few minutes. I asked her about her name, since it was not one I recognized, and it turns out she's from an ethnic background I'm somewhat familiar with. We chatted a for a couple of mins before another customer came and I had to leave.

      A possible downside is that due to the time crunch, I forgot to introduce myself and tell her my name.

      I suspect though that she now knows I like her, lol...how could she not since I'm always in her checkout line haha.

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        #18
        Haha, it seems that closing time trips to the store are going to be more frequent. Good luck!
        I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
        ...
        Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

        From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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          #19
          Yeah, Don't you need to run out for a gallon of milk for breakfast in the morning?
          Or wait, did you forget the eggs?


          Have fun!

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            #20
            Originally posted by atskitty2 View Post
            Yeah, Don't you need to run out for a gallon of milk for breakfast in the morning?
            Or wait, did you forget the eggs?


            Have fun!
            Hahaha...at least if nothing else comes of this, ya'll will get some amusement as I chronicle my adventures. LOL.

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              #21
              Originally posted by a_dub View Post

              Hahaha...at least if nothing else comes of this, ya'll will get some amusement as I chronicle my adventures. LOL.
              We are hoping you will be successful.
              I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
              ...
              Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

              From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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                #22
                My dating adventures are well documented here, and I'm sure others are amused with me on that, so... you're in good company

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                  #23
                  Originally posted by atskitty2 View Post
                  My dating adventures are well documented here, and I'm sure others are amused with me on that, so... you're in good company
                  To be sure!

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                    #24
                    I'd still like an update!

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                      #25
                      Originally posted by Popcorn&Candy View Post
                      I'd still like an update!
                      Saw her again yesterday (3rd time in a week I think) after not seeing her for about 2-3 weeks. But yesterday I was waiting in line and then a different chasier opened up and I was distracted cuz the cashier I like saw me in line and smiled and said hello. But I don't think she was overly excited to see me. But then I don't anyone should be super excited to see a non-celebrity in their line, lol.

                      Anyways didn't get to talk to her. I'm debating if I should ask her out...what if she says "no"? Does that mean I can't shop there anymore? Will it be awkward? And if she says no, do I ask her out again some other time (weeks later of course)? Or is that rude?

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                        #26
                        I think it's better to wait just a bit longer, especially If you would feel like you have to shop elsewhere if she isn't interested. I wouldn't feel that's necessary, but if you'd be uncomfortable, then I'd wait a few more days/weeks.

                        Seems like you have recognition and rapport with her tho, if you are ready to take the step, there's nothing wrong in that.

                        Have you developed enough conversation that you can follow-up on any previously shared info?
                        Things like, "oh how's your dog, I remember you mentioning she was sick"
                        Or "how was that volleyball tournament you played in?"

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                          #27
                          Originally posted by atskitty2 View Post
                          I think it's better to wait just a bit longer, especially If you would feel like you have to shop elsewhere if she isn't interested. I wouldn't feel that's necessary, but if you'd be uncomfortable, then I'd wait a few more days/weeks.

                          Seems like you have recognition and rapport with her tho, if you are ready to take the step, there's nothing wrong in that.

                          Have you developed enough conversation that you can follow-up on any previously shared info?
                          Things like, "oh how's your dog, I remember you mentioning she was sick"
                          Or "how was that volleyball tournament you played in?"
                          Yeah, we've had some interesting chats. It turns out that I had a lot of college friends from her ethnicity (the city I live in has the largest community of her people) and although I'm from a totally different ethnic group several countries away, we're from the same religious group (Muslim) although she said she's not very practicing. It turns out that she was born in refugee camp or something like that. So we've chatted a bit. I mentioned my friend's name and she was like "I'm sure I know him or have seen him at a wedding or a funeral or something".

                          I don't think I'd shop elsewhere. If she turned me down, I'd probably just avoid her checkout line for a week, lol.

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                            #28
                            Well, if you're ready, then go ahead and ask her out for coffee or a cocktail after her shift.

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