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  • Cartoon Kiddie Porn?

    Ok so I need some help here girls! I was on our family's main computer and I went into the family pictures to print a few out and there was a folder in there entitled "my work" so being curious as to what it was doing in the midst of pictures of my kids I went into it. Cartoon kiddie porn. Like 5 gigs of it. There was origional alice (Alice in wonderland) being plowed. There was like 10 year old girl stroking her dads member. I'm disgusted! Put his porn addiction on top of us never speaking except to fight, never playing around together, and never having sex. I am so thoroughly disgusted I just sent him packing to his parents house. I don't feel like I can trust him with my kids anymore. I will be contacting my lawyers in the morning. I don't know if I am overreacting or if this is what I should be feeling. I am in shock and don't kow what to do. Any advice?

  • Do you have separate computers in the house? Like, does he have his own personal computer?
    Regardless, this was on the FAMILY computer. Do the children use the computer? If so, RED FLAG. Why would he chance them finding it?
    The cartoon thing is not as alarming as the 10 year old girl touching her father. I mean, I'm not saying that the Disney porn isn't strange, it is. I would just be more alarmed by the incest porn. I don't think you are in the wrong here.
    If he is viewing this kind of porn, what could he be thinking? YOUR children could have eventually become victims to his strange fantasies.

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    • He has his iPad. And yes our two and four year olds use the computer for abc mouse.com and stuff like that. what you said is exactly what I am thinking. Thank you for your input. I'm just in so much shock that I don't kow what to do here. I'm so scared of what he might have done or been thinking about my kids.

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      • It is understandable to be in shock and not even know what to think. This is your husband, yes? Both of your children? Or a boyfriend/husband and children from a previous marriage. I mean regardless, it doesn't matter. You love these children and he is being disgusting and could potentially harm or molest them.

        You are doing right. I would have done the same thing.

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        • I would contact the police to find out if any of the porn is illegal. Even if it isn't, I would keep the children from him until things are settled. What are your plans at this point?
          I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
          ...
          Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

          From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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          • Well one is his and one isn't his. I will keep the children from him. My plans are to call the police and lawyers in the morning. It will be used in evidence in the custody case if there is one. I will not let him alone with my kids again. I'm in the middle of packing up his things for him to pick up tomorrow. I'm just disgusted. I'm glad that I'm not overreacting. I guess I just needed a bit of reassurance that I'm doing the right thing here. It's hard. I will take this one day at a time and do what is best for me and my girls.

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            • I would get that computer in the hands of the police right away. Call and have them send someone over. If he starts thinking about it he will come back and destroy the evidence.
              I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
              ...
              Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

              From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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              • I saw a story about a man sent to prison for 3 years today for having kiddie porn in the St. Louis area. It contained some sex with children images.
                I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                ...
                Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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                • Yeah good idea. I will call now.

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                  • Originally posted by jns View Post
                    I saw a story about a man sent to prison for 3 years today for having kiddie porn in the St. Louis area. It contained some sex with children images.
                    This should have said "cartoon kiddie porn" instead of "kiddie porn".
                    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                    ...
                    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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                    • Harlee welcome to the Forum.

                      So if I read this right, you are talking about "cartoon" kiddie porn. Where some will state it is "art" but I don't feel that it is, after all they are drawing or using children in a pornigraphic way.

                      Secondly, I am not sure if he could be charged, it is "cartoon" charaters, they may monitor but he is not looking at child pornography he can claim "art".

                      Thirdly, a 2 year old and a 4 year old would be monitored yes? Supervised on a computer with ABC, not left sitting there to accidently come across it, the 2 year old would need monitoring purely and simply as not to fall of the chair or press the wrong keys, break the computer possibly the same with the 4 year old.

                      I think you are in shock to make that comment that children that young may come across it, as surely they are not left alone sitting by a computer?

                      I gather as one is yours and one is his, the 2 year old is his and therefore, you haven't been together very long, possibly 3 years.

                      How old are you both? If you don't mind me asking. I understand your concern but my understanding is a pediaphile starts with fantasy before acting or never acts... These cartoons maybe a way of fantasy without acting.. So like I said, he may not in the act of law committed a crime if he can state that he views it as art.

                      Still disturbing and I understand the immediate course of action is to ensure the children are no where near him.

                      Have you spoken to him at all about it? "Work" says "art" "creating" "money" in my opinion.

                      What is his justification? For your own closure you need to know his thoughts on this.

                      You are doing the right thing as far as taking the kids out of this.

                      Are you married?

                      I am just confused over he has an IPad so he has privacy but uses the family computer and then the children are 2 and 4, using a computer instead of TV?

                      If you would explain that to our members that would help us considerably.

                      CW
                      PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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                      • I had some of the same thoughts as CW. I couldn't tell whether or not the incestuous pornography was cartoon or an actual child. If it's an actual child then I understand everything. If it's all cartoons he drew, then I understand everything except calling the police. For me to call the police on a family member without them harming anyone would be unthinkable, especially if it were my wife and the mother of my children.

                        I'm not excusing how disgusting the stuff is. I would just think really long and hard against taking an action that may mess up his life forever, let alone have a lasting impact on your baby. There are a bunch of people in this internet age, including me, who have seen and been entertained by things we'd never in a million years actually engage in.
                        "Those sowing seed with tears
                        Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126

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                        • Originally posted by Stillness View Post
                          I had some of the same thoughts as CW. I couldn't tell whether or not the incestuous pornography was cartoon or an actual child. If it's an actual child then I understand everything. If it's all cartoons he drew, then I understand everything except calling the police. For me to call the police on a family member without them harming anyone would be unthinkable, especially if it were my wife and the mother of my children.

                          I'm not excusing how disgusting the stuff is. I would just think really long and hard against taking an action that may mess up his life forever, let alone have a lasting impact on your baby. There are a bunch of people in this internet age, including me, who have seen and been entertained by things we'd never in a million years actually engage in.
                          This ^. Being a pedophile is NOT illegal. Abusing children is.

                          Gay people didn't choose to be gay, I didn't choose to be heterosexual, nor did I choose to have a shoe fetish, but I've got one. I believe the former to be facts. This means that fate is the reason I am not sexually attracted to children.

                          You're right to be concerned for your children. A video or a picture of sexual activity with a minor (child porn) is illegal because it is evidence of child abuse. I'm not sure of the law regarding child cartoon porn but I do know it is not evidence of sexual abuse.

                          Read 'understanding and addressing adult sexual attraction to children'.
                          No matter how objective we try to be, we all see through our own eyes...

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                          • If this is cartoons (eg, no real children are involved), and you have no reason to think he has abused the children, then I would not recommend calling the police. This will destroy his life - for looking a drawings.

                            You have every right to throw him out of the house, but in our society being labeled a sex offender is a horrible punishment. Reasonable for someone who has actually hurt a child, but for looking at drawings?????

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                            • He's collecting (maybe making?) cartoon child porn because he knows it's not illegal. You've got a pedophile there. You need to tell his parents what you found. You need to keep those kids away from him. I would notify the police right away.

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