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    I have been in a relationship for 7 yrs with a man that at one point and time in my life i loved with all my heart. I have raised his 3 children that he has full custody off. But for the past year I have been very unhappy in the relationship but after so many years how do u live? I don't want to hurt the children specially but i am no longer happy i am depress , sad and i have meet someone else. I have meet a very special man that does not know the truth about my realtionship. This man makes me happy in a way i have never know before and i feel that i deserver happiness. That i also deserver the opportunity to be able to have my own children to have a family that is mine. It is hard raising children that are not yours we always argue about everything eventhough i have raise them for so many years i don't have a saying. It is hard but i want out and i don't know i am afraid.

    Please I need advice i need help please

  • Your Life

    Get out.

    You have a right to be happy.
    You have been with this man..
    you don't say you are married
    to him, you don't say you have
    any official status towards these
    children, so what I get from
    your letter you seem to be
    a housekeeper with bed priveleges.

    You owe no obligation to anyone.

    Leave the realtionship, and move
    on with your life.

    The children have a mother and a
    father...you were only a volunteer.


    • absolute insane

      absolute insane

      I think you should be trust worthy to your 7 years realtionship

      and find the exact reasons why you are not happy.Just discuss with your

      husband and let him know the reasons of your depressions.If not go for a

      psychiartist for furhter treatment.

      Always be Happy


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