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Have I covered all of the 3 some bases?

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  • Have I covered all of the 3 some bases?

    Ok so my husband and I are going to Vegas soon and I wanted to fulfill his fantasy of a 3 some. (FMF) I figured Vegas would be the best place because its not in our home and the likelyhood of us ever seeing this girl again is slim to none. Im not necessarily a small girl but i havent had problems picking up on girls before because i enjoy men and women. This will be the 1st time for both of us. We have talked about doing it for a long time but haven't. I've communicated boundaries with him. Like I said he could penetrate as long as he was wearing a rubber. I don't want them to do anything of the romantic type. I've read up on effects to marriages or relationships. I have also read on some of the dos and donts. (Like dont allow that person to sleep over and come up with a safe word so that if one of us is feeling uncomfortable we can stop it). I understand that there is a big possibility that he will enjoy it more than our 1 on 1 sex and that the attention won't all be on me. Have I covered all of my based? I still have this nervous uneasy feeling that I can't seem to shake and I'm not sure if its my emotions or if I have forgotten something.

  • The one red flag that I see (no wait, probably more flags than one) - How are YOU feeling about doing this? You state you want to fulfill his fantasy of a 3 some --is this your fantasy as well? Are you going to pick up just anybody on the strip? Prostitution is legal in Vegas, but not ON the strip. Call girls, and ranches are legal, soliciting isn't. Do you know how much you'll have to pay for this and will it be worth it? I don't know, so much is at stake. Also, sometimes things are best left as a fantasy and not being done in reality. Reality probably won't live up to what he is visualizing already (jmho).

    Have you considered what your role will be when he is penetrating her? What are you willing to do? Are you willing to engage in some F/F activities?

    I'd say follow your instincts, and your head, and make sure you would be doing this for all the right reasons and for yourself as well, not just for him.
    That which we forget may as well never really happened.


    • Well we are not willing to do prostitution of any sort. Basically it would be me choosing a girl, flirting with her, and getting her to come back. If I am unsuccessful in doing so then that's fine too. I have done F/F stuff before and i like it. As far as him penetrating her, i feel like that is the only thing that will make me nervous and excited at the same time. Its erotic and exciting to see another girl lust after him and being pleased by him. the only reason its so nerve wracking is because i dont know how i will feel when it actually happen. It is his fantasy but it is also my fantasy to bring his to life. This isnt something that he has been pressuring me to do. My husband has been a very good and understanding man since we have been together so if I decide to back out last minute I know he will be ok with that.


      • Just a word of caution about Vegas then. I think you'll find many under-cover police just waiting for people like you to come along and solicit their services. Money doesn't even have to exchange hands, they are on the look out. I also think you'll find many many women willing to get into a three some - but the probability of them expecting payment is really really high. Single women sitting at a bar are probably not there for a quick drink before they go home (although it could be). Have you been to Vegas before?
        That which we forget may as well never really happened.


        • Yes I have and so has my husband. So my best bet is to find a gal that is maybe with a group? I'm not going to get a prostitute. I would like to meet and chat with a girl (or a group of girls) and if one decides to come back then awesome. If not, then that's ok too. I just want to be prepared on the chance that one does decide to come back.


          • You forgot one thing.. STD testing Condom's can Break, You can F on F and have her Transmit a Disease to you.

            Oops you forgot another thing.
            They may Rob you . Tons of Gals and Guys wanting to " Party " so they can copy your room key. Not hard these days .

            Dang, a 3rd thing here .

            Just basic Kissing, between you and her ( Your Flirt ) or him and her .
            You can get diseases from kissing alone Yep, Sure can.

            There's always the common cold and flu and even mono, all of which can be passed on from an infected kisser to his or her kissee.
            The herpes virus that causes cold sores on the lips or inside of the mouth can be spread through kissing, too. Hepatitis B and some forms of bacterial meningitis could also be transmitted through kissing alone, but this is much less common than getting a cold or flu from swapping saliva or hand-to-hand contact with an infected person.

            So your best bet is call one of the Legally Run " Ranches " and Schedule the 3 some, just like you would a " Show ". The " Ladies " there are Clean, Disease Free and Won't steal you blind once they copy your room key.

            You will have to give Legal ID to " Purchase " a Transaction and sign a Release so you cannot " Sue Them ".

            And Once you do this..
            There is no Blame,No Guilt no Throw it Back in the Face to Hurt the other if you should ever end your Relationship.

            Best would be to Pack an "Outfit " Unknown to him ..
            Have a Wig and Sexy Dress and tell him where to a General area that you may be in.Play your games, flirt slightly and then see if he invites you to His Room .


            • Ranches? I don't know that I've ever heard of them lol. Let alone finding out how to contact one.


              • If you've been to Vegas or are in Vegas you'll see the phone numbers of the various "ranches" you won't have to go looking very far.
                That which we forget may as well never really happened.


                • Google "Mustang Ranch", Nevada.


                  • I checked out a few places. Non of which listed any prices as they are legally not allowed to. But I did send one a message. I just can't get the thought out of my head. I really want to see my man making another woman moan. Am I a psycho or something?! Or do other women have this vision as well? I even started writing a short story about it.


                    • Supposedly escorts are easily available in Las Vegas, but prostitution is illegal in all but 8 rural counties in Nevada. Even in those, legal prostitution has to take place in highly regulated brothels. Look up prostitution in Nevada on Wikipedia.

                      How are you finding a fantasy partner?
                      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                      From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia


                      • I'm not really looking exactly. I'm just open to the idea of a 3 some if it happens. If it doesn't then no worries but I was wondering if I had my bases covered as far as my relationship goes. I just don't want it to be detrimental. But I fantasize all the time about seeing him with another woman.


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