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    **** **** ****I am writing to ask for some advice as I do not know what to do.****here is my story so you can understand.I have been suffering from irregular periods for 4 years which have gotten worse and now have bleeding after sex and examinations, cramps and backache everyday, watery discharge. i have worn a sanitary towel every day for 4 years now.i had internal and external ultrasound scans which came back clear.i had a bladder function test due to thinking that watery discharge was urine, which came back clear also.doctor had said they don't know what it is. which made me feel to give up and just get on with the pain and bleeding.i have just turned 25 and had my first smear and thought well this might be a good thing and give me an answer. i was told this would not give me an answer.smear test done and nurse noticed lesions.smear test results - severe Dyskaryosis. colposcopy booked.had my colposcopy on 12th June an********It was the worst experience of my life. the doctor****didn't****explain anything and nor did he let me ask questions. it was the most painful thing ive ever experienced. after the pain got worse and worse and felt like i was having full blown contractions. i rang the colposcopy clinic and spoke to another doctor and explained i was in a lot of pain and they got me in to see my gp straight away. my gp then phoned the gynae in local hosp and he said he****didn't****think it was down to lletz but my pre existing undiagnosed symptoms. i was given codeine and sent on my way. im still in a lot of pain now but not as much as i was then. just seems that no doctor wants to listen to me or give me a proper reason as to why i have had all these on going symptoms for so long. all i want is to be out of pain and have an answer. if my biopsy comes back saying just cin3 then im back at square one. with no idea as to what i************ruly****wrong with me and there is no way i am going back to my gp practice as****no one****is listening to me. im just getting so fed up with it all now.what else can i do? who can i see? who will listen? what to do next?

  • Hi worried... I don't blame you for swearing so much though we sensor ... What a horrid 4years for you.

    I've moved your thread from WH Feedback to try to see if anyone is / has experienced anything simular.

    Some of us have things that are beyond normal.. It takes a Doctor who cares to know the answer that finds it.

    Not that, that is comforting but my suggesting is keep changing Doctors until someone finds the answer 4 years is too long of .......nothing.....


    • I don't know wjy those asterisks are there as I didn't swear lol. Ok where has it been moved to?


      • Oh they come up when we swear Or something.

        Should show now to Gyno ...

        Honestly we don't give up in life, Doctors should not either, IKD.. is a cop out.

        Hopefully someone can relate here and if not, please, please consult a different Doctor until one gives you the answer.


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