Pain after sex

[Claret]

Frequent intercourse can cause inflammation of the area and surrounding tissues. Small breaks in the tissue can occur as well. The burning and soreness is because of this. The urethra can be swollen causing pain full urination. As jns says, latex allergy, creams, even your lube could cause a reaction. Feeling cold is usually a reaction to a fever. The fever is usually a reaction to a virus or bacterium that your body is fighting. You may have cystitis or a UTI. Talk to your doctor and make sure you don't have any type of infection - this is very common.

[jns]

About every 3rd time after intercourse( so about once a week) the day after (approx. 18h after sex, oh and we use a condom) I always feel the need to go to the toilet constantly, urination burns like hell, it's so painful and I get very cold. This lasts for 4 hours and then everything is as if nothing ever happened.. (But those 4 hours are like going through hell, when it's possible I lock myself inside the bathroom the whole time, but when I'm at uni for example and have classes etc. it's a disaster )
What is this ?
I've tried everything, washing before & after intercourse, urinating before & after,lotions, taking cranberry pills.. Nothing seems to work...
What could this be ?
I would truly appreciate any helpful advice !

Some people have reactions to latex condoms. Some people have reactions to the specific bacteria on their partner's body. Have you asked your partner about his body care habits. He may be using a lotion or something once a week.

[amy40]

not sure but when husband and I were on a vacation once and had sex three or four times that week
I got the one and only infection I've had
had to go to Dr in Canada

(common in honeymooners.....honeymoonitis or UTI)

[cordova85]

About every 3rd time after intercourse( so about once a week) the day after (approx. 18h after sex, oh and we use a condom) I always feel the need to go to the toilet constantly, urination burns like hell, it's so painful and I get very cold. This lasts for 4 hours and then everything is as if nothing ever happened.. (But those 4 hours are like going through hell, when it's possible I lock myself inside the bathroom the whole time, but when I'm at uni for example and have classes etc. it's a disaster )
What is this ?
I've tried everything, washing before & after intercourse, urinating before & after,lotions, taking cranberry pills.. Nothing seems to work...
What could this be ?
I would truly appreciate any helpful advice !