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In love with my wife but also in a sexless marriage

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  • In love with my wife but also in a sexless marriage

    I am in a sexless marriage for the last 7 years. Yet it seems that it was since I got married. My wife had sex with me for the first 2 years randomly. Really when I ask for it. She was a virgin and so was I. I guess I did things wrong cause I really believe she did not like it. On top of that, I have a small penis which I'm sure was not satisfying her. She wanted children so for the first couple of years we had sex. We had 2 girls, and since then sex was on a asking bases one a month or every other month. I love my wife and I can not be unfaithful, so I've been masturbating for the last 7 years. I'm tired of do this. I want my partner, I learn so much from reading articles on the net of things I should have known,and I believe we can make it work. I just have to be able to arouse her and show her the favorable parts of foreplay and loving sex. By the way, during the few times we did have sex I attempted to have oral, but she would always stop me. Please help this old man.

    Mislove

  • I recommend two books for both you and your wife to read. Each book provides great insight into how the other thinks and feels.

    The Sex-Starved Marriage by Michele Weiner Davis

    Becoming Your Spouse's Better Half by Rick Johnson

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    • Try sex therapy, but without her consent this wont happen.

      Your penis size unless very small is insignificant as a woman can cope and enjoy small penis penetration, particularly if she has nothing in her mind to compare it with.

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