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  • wait I am confused about something Alison H. I assumed your "best ever" was the guy you were referring to in your previous post...the guy from 20 + years ago with whom you said you had A LOT Of uninhibited sex....but that guy wasn;t your "best ever" judging by your most recent post. Is that correct?

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    • Originally posted by Marissa91 View Post
      wait I am confused about something Alison H. I assumed your "best ever" was the guy you were referring to in your previous post...the guy from 20 + years ago with whom you said you had A LOT Of uninhibited sex....but that guy wasn;t your "best ever" judging by your most recent post. Is that correct?
      If we’re talking about my “best ever fwb” they are one and the same — because I only ever had one fwb (and therefore, he had no competition for “best ever fwb”… he was automatically the best fwb by virtue of being the only fwb).

      If we’re talking about my “best ever” partner, that’s someone else entirely, who also happens to be the person I married. Two very different things. So no, my fwb was not my “best ever” sex in general, if that’s what you’re asking. I mean it was great and all and at the time, I suppose it was my best ever — but a lot of time has passed since then.

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      • hey Alison H. before I continue with my questions do u mind if I say something real quick?

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        • Originally posted by Marissa91 View Post
          hey Alison H. before I continue with my questions do u mind if I say something real quick?
          It is a forum, so no, I don’t mind if you say something and you don’t have to ask permission to do so — a forum is for saying things; just keep in mind our general forum rules and all is good.

          I’ve got work to do so I’ll be offline for the better part of the day; any questions you have, I’ll get to when I can.

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          • okay I understand and totally respect the fact that you have to work. I am sorry if I annoyed you or anything. :**(

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            • jns did u ever have a f**Uckbuddy?

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              • Originally posted by Marissa91 View Post
                jns did u ever have a ********Uckbuddy?
                No. I had some one-nighters, some short relationships and some longer relationships. I probably would have liked to have one early on but I would have been worried about getting her pregnant when there was maybe no path forward to raise the child together. The difference with a f-buddy is that the original agreement is that there will be no relationship. Over time, I became aware that I liked sex in a relationship better. Of course, one answer would be to have a buddy for oral only.
                I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                ...
                Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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