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  • I came while performing oral on my man!

    Have any of you ever come while performing oral sex on your man? The other night, my boyfriend had given me two incredible squirting orgasms with his hand, then I started performing oral on him (which I love!). After about a minute of deep throating him, I was shocked to feel another orgasm building and before I knew it, I was coming and squirting again…this time with no stimulation except for his penis in my throat. We were both absolutely thrilled with this event but are also wondering how it happened. Have any of you built this into your lovemaking practice or was this a lucky one shot experience? Both of us absolutely adore the idea and would love to recreate this again and again, but are surprised and a bit confused. Thanks so much!


  • Originally posted by Mariebelle View Post
    Have any of you ever come while performing oral sex on your man? The other night, my boyfriend had given me two incredible squirting orgasms with his hand, then I started performing oral on him (which I love!). After about a minute of deep throating him, I was shocked to feel another orgasm building and before I knew it, I was coming and squirting again…this time with no stimulation except for his penis in my throat. We were both absolutely thrilled with this event but are also wondering how it happened. Have any of you built this into your lovemaking practice or was this a lucky one shot experience? Both of us absolutely adore the idea and would love to recreate this again and again, but are surprised and a bit confused. Thanks so much!
    It doesn't have to be a one shot experience but it may be hard to make all of the elements come together to recreate. It doesn't surprise me because the brain is a very big part of reaching orgasm. Having reached orgasm yourself several times just prior to giving him oral sex, your body was tuned to reaching orgasm again with the mental stimulation that you got by giving him oral sex. There was probably a small amount of physical stimulation from you unconsciously shifted your legs as you built toward orgasm. This would be similar to a woman reaching orgasm from an erotic dream. Best wishes on trying to achieve this again.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • Thank you for your insights. They are very helpful. Even if we cannot recreate this particular experience, I think it opened our minds to the idea that I may be able to intense orgasm through intense mental and emotional stimulation. Now the possibilities seem endless?

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      • Mariebelle It's funny you should bring this up!

        I have a partner who is able to have an orgasm almost with anything I do...I tell her she is VERY lucky.

        That includes giving me head and deep throating as well -- she will have several orgasms doing this naturally, with no other stimulation.

        She's also able to cum from nipple play, kissing, and pretty much anything else, but it is indeed very erotic and a huge turn-on when I know that when she is pleasuring me, she's also enjoying it that much.

        And as you say, the possibilities are endless! If you are this turned on with that, you might find other situations that are equally as stimulating with little to no extra manipulation where you might have an orgasm as well!

        I am happy for you and your partner!

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        • Thank you! At 45, it is a new experience for me to be SO turned on by someone that I am able to come so easily, and in different ways. Previously, I could only achieve orgasm through oral and barely enjoyed intercourse. My boyfriend showed me how to achieve vaginal orgasms, including squirting, and loves opening me up to new things my body can do. The orgasm while giving him oral, however, was a surprise to both of us.

          I actually wondered about achieving orgasm through nipple play. One time he rubbed and slapped my clit for a while, then stopped and focused solely on my breasts. I did feel close to coming while he was doing that, and exploded immediately and intensely the second he moved down and started with oral. Maybe a nipple orgasm will be next in the books for us.

          thank you so much for the inspiration, and I’m thrilled for you and your partner as well!

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          • Originally posted by Mariebelle View Post
            Thank you! At 45, it is a new experience for me to be SO turned on by someone that I am able to come so easily, and in different ways. Previously, I could only achieve orgasm through oral and barely enjoyed intercourse. My boyfriend showed me how to achieve vaginal orgasms, including squirting, and loves opening me up to new things my body can do. The orgasm while giving him oral, however, was a surprise to both of us.

            I actually wondered about achieving orgasm through nipple play. One time he rubbed and slapped my clit for a while, then stopped and focused solely on my breasts. I did feel close to coming while he was doing that, and exploded immediately and intensely the second he moved down and started with oral. Maybe a nipple orgasm will be next in the books for us.

            thank you so much for the inspiration, and I’m thrilled for you and your partner as well!
            One time I brought a girlfriend to orgasm by nipple play. I had noticed that her breasts were especially responsive one day and she said that she didn't want (traditional) oral. She was busy reading a book and gave me access to her breasts. I concentrated mostly on one breast and built up the sucking, squeezing and teasing in successive waves. After a while she became distracted from her book and built up to an orgasm. Best wishes on your experimentation.
            I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
            ...
            Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

            From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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            • That’s amazing! Thank you!!

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              • Yes I absolutely love coming when I give my boyfriend oral sex & it happens every time because I enjoy giving him oral sex because I know he enjoys it so in turns that gets me excited & that's why I think I always come.

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                • Maribelle, you are not alone. I also have had orgasms while performing deep throat. I love giving blowjobs more than anything, I get so turned on when I do it. And the overwhelming sensations of a hard penis in my throat septimes is enough to push me over the edge. So congratulations and enjoy!

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