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When you give your man oral but he won't do the same

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  • I remember asking my boyfriend in college if he liked the taste when going down on women and he said at first he didn't but after doing it for a while he associates the taste with sex and being aroused so now he likes it. I would imagine it could be similar with your boyfriend? If he never does it, he'll never get used to it. He should at least try because he knows it would make you happy. It seems selfish not to even try imo.

    I also think some men have a really old fashioned view of giving head that it's somehow like not a masculine thing to do? (lollll) There's that episode of The Sopranos where everyone finds out this guy likes eating ***** and he's mercilessly teased.

    Obviously no one should do something sexual that they're not into but if the roles were reversed I'm sure you would at least try to find a compromise with him and do the thing he wanted to do. Definitely sit him down and explain how this is making you feel. A sexual relationship that is one sided sucks.

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    • To be fair. I do not give blowjobs. I have this fear that i will pick up hpv and get throat cancer or some other disease..I also don't t like it when a guy goes down on me. I over think the whole thing. Like is it smelly, is it aesthetically pleasing to look at. Does it taste nice? I feel like it would be an embarasment so i just don't do it..i also don't enjoy oral sex but i guess it's because of all of the above. I tell a guy from the beginning of a relationship that oral sex is a big no no.

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      • Originally posted by Terra84 View Post
        He says he just doesn't like doing it
        You might consider seeing if he will perform oral on you if you have your underwear on.

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