Do you fantasize about being with someone of a different race?

[ScorchedEarth]

I’m a white-Jamaican man of British descent, married to an Afro-Jamaican woman for 32 years. The woman who took my virginity was half black, half South Asian (Indian). Truth be told, I’ve never experienced a white woman, though I would like to (but the wife would NOT appreciate that ?)

Culturally, we’re the same; which definitely helps in the longevity of our marriage. And in case you’re wondering; yes: I’m a native speaker of the Jamaican Patois dialect. Non Jamaicans look at me as if I just grew a second head when they hear me speaking it.

Where problems may arise is not in the race at all, but in the culture of both persons; especially if one or both in the couple have a tendency to be unyielding is the observance of their culture.

[Rayn]

Don't get caught up in race. I'm a black man that's been with women from many ethnic backgrounds: caucasian, italian, hispanic, swedish, filipino, just to name a few. Even my wife is German.

So don't let yourself get caught up in race. Instead allow yourself to enjoy the relationship and perhaps learn about a different culture.

[G-Wagon]

I have had sex during one time encounters but I find it more satisfying during longer term relationships.

That is what I always go for regardless of race. Long term loving relationships

[G-Wagon]

I think men just wanting just sex doesn’t necessarily have to do with race. Women of all race and culture are beautiful. I like women with big bums and hips which can be found in most ethnicities

I concur..

[jns]

What is ironic is that when i did have an encounter with people of different races, guys in particular all they wanted was just sex. Which for me doesn't count as I wanted the whole experience and not just wham bam thank you ma'am.

I have had sex during one time encounters but I find it more satisfying during longer term relationships.

[MrMr]

What is ironic is that when i did have an encounter with people of different races, guys in particular all they wanted was just sex. Which for me doesn't count as I wanted the whole experience and not just wham bam thank you ma'am.

I think men just wanting just sex doesn’t necessarily have to do with race. Women of all race and culture are beautiful. I like women with big bums and hips which can be found in most ethnicities

[G-Wagon]

What is ironic is that when i did have an encounter with people of different races, guys in particular all they wanted was just sex. Which for me doesn't count as I wanted the whole experience and not just wham bam thank you ma'am.

[MrMr]

People definitely fetish race. I am mixed race but pass as white. When I was younger I hooked up with a girl that said that she's always wanted to try a black d*ck. It's a throw away comment but it is unnecessary.

[amy40]

there are mixed race couples in our neighborhood
in the U.S., it seems mixed race couples are more common today

[Mo]

I am a black woman and live in South Africa. Because of the history of racial segregation it is very very rare to see a mixed couple. So much so that people usually stare and make snide comments when they spot one. I have wanted nothing more than to be with someone of a different race mostly European.

I totally get where you are coming from. Here's what happened in my case:

A few years ago, I was studying in East Asia for my high school, and I ended up dating a girl who was as "Asian" as one can get (and not from my race). I still remember all the stares we would get from all the locals, but we didn't pay much attention to those and kept on going.

Here's what you can do:
IF you really like the person, then try not to think about what other people would say or do, as those people should not have an impact on your life.
It all boils down to "You do you, I'll do me."