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    I am the new one here and would like to say hallo to everybody. I don't have much experience with women therefore I would like to ask question. It is said that most women when we talk about vaginal penetration like it fast and hard. I wonder why this form of penetration is satysfying for women in opposition to slow and boring sex ? I wonder what happens inside female body when men do it fast and hard so that she finds this form of penetration satysfying ? How vagina 'behaves ' when sex is slow and boring and how vagina 'behaves 'when penetration is fast and hard so that woman experiences maximum pleasure ?

  • Slow definitely isn't the same thing as boring. Personally I would prefer a wide range of speed and pressure. If you do just one thing the whole time you become desensitized. If you switch it up it's much more engaging. However, if my partner was going to pick one speed the entire time I would probably choose slow.

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    • Originally posted by rafapak View Post
      Hi
      I am the new one here and would like to say hallo to everybody. I don't have much experience with women therefore I would like to ask question. It is said that most women when we talk about vaginal penetration like it fast and hard. I wonder why this form of penetration is satysfying for women in opposition to slow and boring sex ? I wonder what happens inside female body when men do it fast and hard so that she finds this form of penetration satysfying ? How vagina 'behaves ' when sex is slow and boring and how vagina 'behaves 'when penetration is fast and hard so that woman experiences maximum pleasure ?
      Welcome to WH Interactive Forums. I think that this statement is wrong: "It is said that most women when we talk about vaginal penetration like it fast and hard." I also think tying slow and boring together is also wrong. Fast and hard without proper technique can lead to bruising. It can also cause problems if lubrication isn't sufficient. Slow will only be boring if the technique is also poor. My experience is that women like a variety of speeds and that technique is more important than speed. A woman having pleasure from sex is less about how her vagina behaves and more about clitoral stimulation and mental stimulation. Proper physical technique will usually include at least indirect clitoral stimulation. Mental stimulation can take many forms. What works for one woman may not work for other women. Discussing what a woman likes can help get the technique right as well as noting her reaction to different actions and finding out which ones work best. Setting a positive mood can also help.
      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
      ...
      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

      From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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      • Think it all comes down to what kind of mood the gal is in. At some point, if you do it slow all the time, you will probably want to try something different simply for variety's' sake.

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        • thanks for replies

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          • Well in my experience i will tell u what I want. Usually i like it slow and sensual. It is definitely not boring lol. And if i want it fast and harder i will tell you while we are doing it. So you always know.

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            • do you tell him ''faster and harder'' more often when compared to 'slow and sensual'

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              • It's all about reading the moment. Also there is normally only so much hard and fast I can do without cumming or getting tired. That's when you switch things up and change the rhythm

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                • Originally posted by rafapak View Post
                  do you tell him ''faster and harder'' more often when compared to 'slow and sensual'
                  I do not think so. Myb 4 out of 10 times. Slow can get annoying sometimes especially when he is about to cum and keeps stopping to prolong the session.

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                  • Originally posted by MrMr View Post
                    It's all about reading the moment. Also there is normally only so much hard and fast I can do without cumming or getting tired. That's when you switch things up and change the rhythm
                    You are 100% right. It does not have to be faster. He can switch it up and shake/wiggle his hips like a figure of 8 and hit all the sides.. Yessss!!!

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