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Would you encourage a man to buy his wife a vibrator?

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  • MrMr
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    I happily use toys because I want to not because I need to. And if someone wants to have DP then a toy is needed

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  • WowWhoKnew
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    Originally posted by Wednesday L.F. View Post
    I’m not clear what using a sex toy or not has to do with selfishness.
    Sex toys are not being selfish. Just the opposite. The question was would you encourage a man to buy a vibe for his wife. If the man is more than enough for her, no need for a vibe. If the man is not, then of course buy a vibe or something to help out. The selfishness would be if the man is not considering how best to be a blessing to his wife. We know men who are afraid of sex toys replacing them. That's crazy but I get it.

    My husband and I never used vibes until recently. We had been slipping sexually and we both knew it, for many reasons. When he suggested new and different Christmas presents this year I was immediately aroused. Something so different, so out of the box for us. I was scared, it was amazing! He took me on a 2nd honeymoon where we played for 9 days with our new gadgets. He wasn't intimidated by any of them and there were several that could have been very intimidating. We are older, he recognized a need for help, and girl oh girl did he ever go above and beyond! Sometimes you just need a little helping hand, or two, or three, or more (finger, hand, device, penis, machine, and so forth).

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  • pearlvibe
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    Hey there! I totally get your dilemma. A vibrator can be an amazing way to spice things up, but it’s understandable to worry it could create distance between you two as well. My advice? Don’t overthink it! Try out a vibe together with your wife - make it about enhancing your intimacy, not replacing it. I’d highly recommend something like [link removed by mod]. It has a unique tapping motion to simulate a lover's fingers, plus rumbling vibrations and rabbit ears to stimulate the clitoris. Having a toy like the Rabbit Tapping G-spot Vibrator to play with together could be just the fun novelty you need to reconnect physically and emotionally. And don't worry, you won't get jealous of a piece of silicone! The vibe is just a toy to enhance your shared pleasure, not a substitute for you. So relax, have fun exploring new sensations together, and let a toy like the Rabbit Tapping G-spot Vibrator bring you closer as a couple. Just be sure to clean it properly and store it discreetly so the kids don't find it! As for my first sex toy...let's just say it was a lot more basic and unsatisfying than the high-tech options available today! ?
    Last edited by Wednesday L.F.; 11-01-2023, 10:54 AM.

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  • MrMr
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    Originally posted by Wednesday L.F. View Post
    I’m not clear what using a sex toy or not has to do with selfishness.
    Exactly. If sex can be made better with toys then why wouldn't you? How else can you do multiple things at once?

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  • Wednesday L.F.
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    I’m not clear what using a sex toy or not has to do with selfishness.

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  • WowWhoKnew
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    Depends on if you are more interested in being selfish or being a blessing to her. If you are able to bless her on your own - Awesome! If not...

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  • jeeniferruby921212
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    good luck

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  • Glasgowgal
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    My new bf has bought us several toys

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  • Steao80
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    Hello ! Yes, if you feel the need, try it and if it doesn't work, don't insist. But for me it's like watching a porn film or wearing naughty lingerie, it should only be used once in a while.

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  • MrMr
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    Sex toys are simply additional tools. It's only an issue if sex is more enjoyable with a toy than with you and if that's allowed to happen then it's because of lack of communication. Sex should be about pleasuring each other and unless you have a vibrating tongue you can use at the same time as your penis then you should embrace the assistance available

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