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  • Qrious123
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    Originally posted by Nina O View Post

    That is very incorrect. You are a Homosexual if you are sexually attracted to the same sex. Many straight men love having a dildo up their rectum, because it feels good.
    Well said Nina. Long (long!) before I had realised I was bisexual I still loved prostate play and had the good fortune to have a girlfriend who was open (and even enthusiastic) about pegging. For me it had nothing to do with anything homosexual, it was the mind-blowing (and sometimes multiple) orgasms.

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  • Nina O
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    Originally posted by waynew67 View Post
    If you are male and what a woman or man to shove a dildo up your rectum, you are a homosexual.
    That is very incorrect. You are a Homosexual if you are sexually attracted to the same sex. Many straight men love having a dildo up their rectum, because it feels good.

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  • waynew67
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    If you are male and what a woman or man to shove a dildo up your rectum, you are a homosexual.

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  • Kayla Lords
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    As strange as his request might seem, it says something good about the relationship that he's willing to share his desires with you like that.

    Sexuality isn't about a physical act (like pegging). It's about attraction and sexual desire to people. Him wanting to experience the sensation of a partner coming inside him isn't about whether he's gay or not, unless he decides he wants a man to do it. That he's opened up to you about it means it's likely more about curiosity, kinks, and/or sexual pleasure.

    If you're not comfortable doing it, of course, you get to set your limits and boundaries. Just make sure that you're not rejecting the idea out of a misplaced idea of what a sex act may or may not mean about sexuality.

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  • Gena G.
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    You get to define your own sexuality. It isn't defined for you! Your boyfriend could have sex with men and still be straight. Personally I think men who aren't afraid to ask for what they want sexually (especially if it's something that can be considered taboo) are the best partners! What's hotter than a man that's confident?? And he clearly is if he's comfortable enough to ask for something a little off the beaten track. If you're both having fun then who cares about labels or what anyone else thinks!

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  • Zoë T.
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    Everyone has different likings when it comes to sex! Honestly, I find the amount of different kinks that this world holds to be pretty amazing. Pegging is an awesome and totally sexy way to experiment with role-reversal, and it works best when you and your partner are both comfortable and share open, honest communication. A squirting dildo sounds like a super fun addition to pegging.

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  • greyfox
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    I am a man who has been on the receiving end of the occasional(or regular) pegging and I can say that its become one of the most enjoyable sexual activities that me and my wife partake in. The combination of prostate stimulation and the role reversal aspect makes it a real intense and intimate act that we both enjoy. My wife sometimes places a small egg vibrator inside the harness and when I'm a patient and cooperative boy she orgasm's as well. Those are probably my favorite sessions because I can time my climax to hers pretty easily and we can share that special feeling together. I know that I'm not at all attracted to men so I really have zero insecurity about enjoying this activity. We ventured upon it in a progressive manner, starting with a finger during oral and progressing from there.

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  • LaraTheOnigiri
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    Heyo!

    Me and my boyfriend share a mutual interest in pegging (I like dominating on the next level and he likes submitting to me) and do it often. It's just a kink and perfectly normal. I remember I found it to be so scary, unnatural and dirty but its part of the excitement. However, for any guys wanting to try it, I recommend buying an anal dildo for your self first and doing some practicing, get YOURSELF used to the idea and feelings that come with anal play.

    I didn't even know you could have a squirting dildo. I know what I'm shopping for next!!!

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  • Guest's Avatar
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    As a guy who's into strap-on play who's straight, I can see where he's coming from. For me it's the actual physical stimulation, they physical submissive positions ( on your back with your legs up or bent over isn't very dominant or masculine) and the humiliation aspects of it all rolled into one. Adding the squirting of the dildo to the mix just adds to the humiliation part of it. I wouldn't worry about him being gay. Then again, if he said the fantasy of being taken by another man was a turn on, would that be a problem for you? If you're not grossed out with strapping on a fake-cum squirting dildo to your body, then go for it.

    Kudos for being open to his fantasies and caring enough about him to get answers here.

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  • CoolBreeze
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    Men who like pegging are more open to dominant role playing by their female partners and tend to be one of the best sexual partners. So if your boyfriend is open to such non-vanilla attitudes you are a lucky girl. Don't feel ashamed or awkward about it, since you have an open-minded partner develop your relationship. With such attitudes many avenues to enrich your life open up, which are normally not available to others.

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