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Guys: Do you like condoms during oral sex?
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Patti-here repliedI'm not a guy, but when I was with guys, the last thought in my head was having him wear a condom while I was preforming oral sex on him, ewww..
muffin70 repliedNo - I prefer the 'natural' way
However, my wife won't give me a BJ unless I am wearing one, so I have chocolate flavoured ones that she used on the rare occasion she does give me oral sex
apparently she doesn't like the 'taste' of a mans penis and I think she is worried I might orgasm and she will get sperm in her mouth
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Motorguy repliedI don't use condoms have not since i been married for 27 years and the 2 years dating my wife. I have no reason to do so. I don't have sex with other women my wife enjoys other female friends but I don't hook up with them.
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bootsie repliedOriginally posted by thecatlady View PostSo, it seems like the only really safe way to give oral sex would be to use a flavored condom. Even if he's been tested for all STDs, there still may be things that cannot be detected or that he does not know of (HPV, which often doesn't have symptoms, but can lead to throat cancer if it's transmitted orally, for example).
But, I was wondering if guys actually like this? I mean, is it still pleasurable for them when their partner gives them oral sex with a condom on? Any thoughts on this? Any particular recommended brands?
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kira repliedThey do make barriers for women. No idea the effect they have. Considering it would just flatten parts down it would probably be worse than it is for guys. Probably why you don't hear of anyone using them. I know some do use dental dams when doing anal oral sex. Wouldn't know how that feels either.
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tjm0824 repliedOriginally posted by thecatlady View PostSo, it seems like the only really safe way to give oral sex would be to use a flavored condom. Even if he's been tested for all STDs, there still may be things that cannot be detected or that he does not know of (HPV, which often doesn't have symptoms, but can lead to throat cancer if it's transmitted orally, for example).
But, I was wondering if guys actually like this? I mean, is it still pleasurable for them when their partner gives them oral sex with a condom on? Any thoughts on this? Any particular recommended brands?
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Guest repliedNo.
Would you want to wear a latex barrier when a man is performing oral sex on you?
BTW, while I love oral sex, I would never base a relationship upon whether my wife or g/f would perform oral sex on me. Some women do not like giving oral sex to men. That's their preference. I'm good with it.
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Obelisk repliedmy first gf loved giving me bj's but insisted on a condom. I couldn't feel anything. I don't even like bj's but to humor her I went along with it. She did love for me to go down on her with my tongue raw. I complained once and said "look, if you want to give me a bj then it's pointless to do it with the condom, do you want me to stick a condom on your clit and lick it then?". So I got it raw a couple of times. Still not the same as straight sex, but it definitely felt way better than with it.
I still wouldn't ask for a bj unless the girl want to, but if they insist, at least have the decency to do it raw so I can at least enjoy it a bit.
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rcoreyus repliedIt will almost certainly depend on the person. For me, I wouldn't enjoy it / it wouldn't be worth it. And no, I can't rationalize that opinion, just how I would react.
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