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    How do you ladies go about introducing sex toys into fun times with your partner? Do you ever get pushback?
    Last edited by Alison H.; 04-22-2022, 08:29 PM.

  • I'm actually not really into toys. I have a vibrator, and I'd tried it once, I think. When my bf and I became sexual, he asked if we could use it, and I told him it wasn't really my thing, but maybe together I'd enjoy it more. So...he tried it out with me a couple times, and could see that it really did nothing for me. We put it away and have a giggle now and then about how weird I am

    We've talked about trying out some other things, but so far, we've not pulled the trigger on any of those ideas.

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    • I really like to go sex toy shopping with my partner as a fun and frisky date. We both find toys that we like and then narrow it down to one choice that we'll run home to try. It's really fun to see what my partner chooses, and the foreplay of imagining what I'll do with the toy when I get home is always a great turn on for me.

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      • I've been really fortunate with my current partner (and the partner before him) - they both brought up the idea of sex toys as part of our sex life before I did. It helps that we're both into BDSM and there's already a certain acceptance of toys being used for kinky scenes. Vibrators are so often used in some kinky play (like orgasm control) that it wasn't weird to them to think of using sex toys in other ways. My husband and I use sex toys for non-kinky play all the time, and we're respectful of each other's needs (and privacy) for masturbation. The joke between us is that he now has more sex toys than I do (between penis rings, masturbators, and prostate massagers), lol.

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        • Originally posted by Wednesday L.F. View Post
          How do you ladies go about introducing sex toys into fun times with your partner?
          years ago, husband bought me my first toy for when he's away for work travels

          recently, brought a toy into bedroom with us
          he said "let me"...I was surprised & also delighted

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          • I love making penis mould dildos.

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            • My boyfriend wanted me to buy a toy for myself for when he isn't there which if anyone has been reading my posts then you will know we don't live together right now & I go 30 mins to visit him Anyway so I use it sometime well one time he told me to bring it with me so I did & He used it on me & It was fantastic. Now I much prefer him use it on me then me using it on myself lol. It was a good purchase.

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              • Originally posted by Terra84 View Post
                My boyfriend wanted me to buy a toy for myself for when he isn't there which if anyone has been reading my posts then you will know we don't live together right now & I go 30 mins to visit him Anyway so I use it sometime well one time he told me to bring it with me so I did & He used it on me & It was fantastic. Now I much prefer him use it on me then me using it on myself lol. It was a good purchase.
                You didn't mention what toy you bought
                I like using a vibrator with my boyfriend because it brings pleasure to us both.
                Also, I recently asked about a butt plug and I now want to buy it. And I think I can use it together and hope it will lead to a great orgasm.
                Last edited by jns; 08-11-2022, 01:25 AM.

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                • Sex toys with your partner!
                  I'm not sure where to Start.
                  guess make it simple,
                  My Partner she Like Penetration feeling,
                  do to medical reason at this time I not able too do that for with the stander equipment,
                  by like my user name there's other ways toys are new to her and I'm looking for a toy that would facilitate that feeling she's looking for her I do not have the knowledge or ever will have how that feels for a woman.
                  so any help would be welcomed TYVM for your Time, Folks.
                  remember the biggest & best sex Organ is the MIND!!!

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                  • We don't use toys a lot but here and there it's fun to add some in. It was probably close to a month ago now but Ronnie used a vibrator on me one night and pleasured himself while he did. We kissed, he talked a little dirty in my ear. It was a fun, hot little change of pace to what we normally do.

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