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    How do you ladies go about introducing sex toys into fun times with your partner? Do you ever get pushback?

  • I'm actually not really into toys. I have a vibrator, and I'd tried it once, I think. When my bf and I became sexual, he asked if we could use it, and I told him it wasn't really my thing, but maybe together I'd enjoy it more. So...he tried it out with me a couple times, and could see that it really did nothing for me. We put it away and have a giggle now and then about how weird I am

    We've talked about trying out some other things, but so far, we've not pulled the trigger on any of those ideas.

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    • I really like to go sex toy shopping with my partner as a fun and frisky date. We both find toys that we like and then narrow it down to one choice that we'll run home to try. It's really fun to see what my partner chooses, and the foreplay of imagining what I'll do with the toy when I get home is always a great turn on for me.

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      • I've been really fortunate with my current partner (and the partner before him) - they both brought up the idea of sex toys as part of our sex life before I did. It helps that we're both into BDSM and there's already a certain acceptance of toys being used for kinky scenes. Vibrators are so often used in some kinky play (like orgasm control) that it wasn't weird to them to think of using sex toys in other ways. My husband and I use sex toys for non-kinky play all the time, and we're respectful of each other's needs (and privacy) for masturbation. The joke between us is that he now has more sex toys than I do (between penis rings, masturbators, and prostate massagers), lol.

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        • Originally posted by Wednesday L.F. View Post
          How do you ladies go about introducing sex toys into fun times with your partner?
          years ago, husband bought me my first toy for when he's away for work travels

          recently, brought a toy into bedroom with us
          he said "let me"...I was surprised & also delighted

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          • I love making penis mould dildos.

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            • I used to fight with my man about him using this fleshlight toy, but apparently it helps him to keep longer in bed, huh

              he uses it an hour before we have sex, so he doesn't cum fast in bed

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