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  • Originally posted by JonnyR View Post
    From a dude's perspective, I always liked it when my partners did NOT wear underwear...it was a sexy turn-on, although I totally get why you might need or want to for so many reasons of hygiene, chafing, comfort, etc.

    As for myself, I always wear underwear to bed...I've tried sleeping naked, but it just doesn't feel comfortable for me...stuff just flopping all around and not tightly cradled seems to be more distracting and keeps me awake rather than being freeing.
    My thoughts exactly.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • I do — but I'm so prone to UTIs (thanks, menopause!) that I'm afraid not to. I USED to skip underwear years ago, but it's been a LONG time.

      I don't wear anything to bed unless it's cold (and my hot flashes are not flashing to keep me warm...) but during the day, I do wear cotton, comfortable boyshorts — always. I am right there with Gena though — I rarely wear a bra anymore unless I'm going out, or someone is coming over. (And even then, depending on WHO is coming over, I may not bother with it...)

      The pandemic really made me embrace comfort at home, that's for sure.

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      • I prefer the feeling of a good pair of cotton underwear to going commando. For some reason I like the feeling of having everything tucked in and dry. It's funny because I like lounging around in boxer shorts, but still wear my regular underwear underneath them - technically I'm doubled up. I haven't worn a bra in years and it's great!

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        • Originally posted by Zoë T. View Post
          I haven't worn a bra in years and it's great!
          I agree it's freeing to go braless and it's easy to flash husband, lol
          he just laughs when I do

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          • I can't walk around without underwear. When I'm not wearing underwear, I feel uncomfortable. Some nights I can sleep completely naked, so my body can rest well. But I have never gone out without panties. Among my acquaintances, some girls wear panties only during menstruation.

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            • I dont always wear panties in my daily life but i often wear pantyhose to work and often off work so that does it for me, i wear bra at work, not so much at home and covid hasnt changed much for me.

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