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    Ok so i am the proud own of 34D cup breasts. I'm not fat. I'm pretty maybe even beautiful. I was never once self consious of my nipples because i know clearly that everyones are different. Until the dreaded day...
    ...One of my almost friends, a guy who i have a crush on for a lot of years said "Pepperoni nipples" to me. I had no clue. He kept at it. It hurt my feelings but i ignored it. Then he switched to saying "Pancake nipples." He says it every time with a big grin on his face for a reason which i do not know.
    Is it a bad thing to have "pepperoni" or "pancake" nipples"? I thought mine were just fine until he started saying it. Does anyone else have them that look like that? Is it a turn off for guys? My boyfriend says I'm perfect the way I am and he would kill to see my breasts naked but idk. Ever since then i have been afraid to let anyone see my breasts. The embarrassment interfers with my sex life because now I'm so darn shy to have sex naked. I won't do it unless we both have some sort or cloths on because I don't want to displease or disgust my boyfriend. How can i get over this so i can make him happy by being fully naked?

  • Easy. If you let your "almost friend" see your breasts and he started making those comments afterward, he's an idiot, and you shouldn't let his stupidity affect you. Do you have thick/wide nipples? Not that it matters really, since your boyfriend would be thrilled to see them.

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    • Get rid of the almost? friend. He is being extremely mean. I looked those terms up on urban dictionary and they are always said in a demeaning fashion. Get rid of him.
      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
      ...
      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

      From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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      • Originally posted by jns View Post
        Get rid of the almost? friend. He is being extremely mean. I looked those terms up on urban dictionary and they are always said in a demeaning fashion. Get rid of him.
        Yea i looked it up too right before i posted this question. Mine aren't ugly at all but its said in such a horrible way on there. They are a pretty good size for my breasts. I feel if they were any smaller or any bigger i would look weird. I personally like mine. The thing is i get very afraid if my boyfriend would like them. He has seen them in pictures bare and says they a beautiful though i get high doubts he would say the same thing in person. All the demeaning things said about them on the internet are really hurtful.

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        • No, Tex. He hasn't personally seen them. He only found out from an ex boyfriend. My ex boyfriend loved my breats but he talked about me to him. Me and my ex boyfriend are still currently friends and he wouldn't talk bad about me but my almost friend is a real A hole to EVERYONE he knows.

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          • Originally posted by thecute1331 View Post
            but my almost friend is a real A hole to EVERYONE he knows.
            Well then there's even more of a reason to not care what he thinks. He's just being a jerk. What is it about him that you're crushing on? I don't get it. If he's an a-hole, I certainly wouldn't be friends with him, or "almost friends" even. I'd tell him to take his idiotic comments and shove it then get lost.

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            • Real friends don't run around saying hurtful things to amuse themselves at your expense. Sounds like a case of sour grapes - you know, he knows he wont be getting to play with them so he does the, "well who would want to anyway" thing.

              Don't let a jerk like that affect your enjoyment of your body and sharing with a man who will appreciate it.

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              • If you are saying that your boyfriend loves you as you are, then why the things of ur friend bothering you?? If your boyfriend says that about your nipples then you should worry but now just just ignore your friend and make your boyfriend happy by being fully naked as he must be waiting for it from long time...

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                • Hes a Jack***** & is probably just doiung it cause it gets a rise out of you & he knows he aint getting any.
                  Sounds like "baby gerkin d**ck" should be mentioned every time you see him, preferably in front of others with a knowing smirk like you know what your talking about.
                  That or just kick him in the nads next time.

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                  • I've never heard them being referred as "Pepperoni Nipples"!! Not much of a friend to be calling you hurtful names...

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                    • Find a new "friend". Problem solved.

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                      • Tell him to go eat pizza....

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                        • Wow.. what a jerk... first off... What's the deal with the ex talking about you that way with his friends??... And this guy obviously can't stop thinking about your breasts naked.. I mean really? Maybe he gets off on trying to get a rise out of someone... but I'll bet you he'd be all over them if you gave him the option. What a jerk. His opinion really doesn't matter... because not only is he a jerk... he's never actually been in a position to judge. He only has his own idea in his head of what's going on there... he doesn't know beyond his own imagination.

                          Don't question yourself... you've feel pretty/beautiful... you know what you look like. Your boyfriend has already seen your breasts through pictures, likes what he saw.... I think being able to be close to him, let yourself and your insecurities lay out there. I wouldn't be surprised if you pretty much wiped those old words out of your mind by the reaction you'll probably get when your boyfriend is able to have that first real visual and skin on skin contact he's been waiting for.

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                          • I'm thinking he was referring to your areolas (not the nipples?)? Many women have large areolas and I can't speak for all men, but my sweetheart absolute LOVES mine~~but as always, I'm sure it has more to do with who they are attached to than how they look. If your boyfriend loves you as you are, believe him. Please don't let something someone else said affect you to where you are inhibited with your boyfriend~~to be confident and uninhibited is just about the sexiest thing a woman can be.

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                            • Funny...but it would probably require a microscope and targeting computer to find them!

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