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  • An interesting point, if it's still valid, and I believe it is: most incestuous relationships occur between brother and sister

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    • as i said before its just a fantasy and im not sick....
      if i could remove these thoughts from my head i would, just curious to see if there are other mothers battling the same conflict

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      • Happy New Year, kimmytor,

        I've never heard of a woman with your thoughts. I'm sure it's more than likely that you're not the first, nor will you be the last.

        The problem with incest is one has power or force while the other, usually the female, submits out of fear.

        I wish you the absolute best in purging your thoughts. I'm sure that you're a good person.

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        • kimmytor, I'm so sorry these thoughts have come to you. Menopause huh? Well, about 3 years ago, I had a huge hormonal shift, and I had a horrible mood, personality and thought struggle through that process. I was alarmed by the thoughts invading my mind and had no control over them. I get it. Are you having other unwanted thoughts or behavioral changes?

          You're recognizing that this isn't proper, and that's the good thing. Have you spoken to your doctor or a therapist to help you cope with the changes you're experiencing? Not because there's anything wrong with you, but because these things can sometimes bring guilt and shame, which are not healthy for you mentally. They can also help you learn tools for managing the thoughts when they creep in. It's likely they'll suggest medication, but you can manage without.

          Hugs. Sorry this is happening. I had some "odd" sexual desires back at that time, so I can understand your frustration. Hang in there.

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          • Originally posted by atskitty2 View Post
            kimmytor, I'm so sorry these thoughts have come to you. Menopause huh? Well, about 3 years ago, I had a huge hormonal shift, and I had a horrible mood, personality and thought struggle through that process. I was alarmed by the thoughts invading my mind and had no control over them. I get it. Are you having other unwanted thoughts or behavioral changes?

            You're recognizing that this isn't proper, and that's the good thing. Have you spoken to your doctor or a therapist to help you cope with the changes you're experiencing? Not because there's anything wrong with you, but because these things can sometimes bring guilt and shame, which are not healthy for you mentally. They can also help you learn tools for managing the thoughts when they creep in. It's likely they'll suggest medication, but you can manage without.

            Hugs. Sorry this is happening. I had some "odd" sexual desires back at that time, so I can understand your frustration. Hang in there.
            ^^^This is the right reply to kimmytor's post^^^

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            • And the trolls like Carmel return...

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              • Originally posted by Texasred View Post
                And the trolls like Carmel return...
                Carmel111 has now been banned for failure to heed my earlier warning about outbound links and advertising not being allowed.
                I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                ...
                Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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