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  • muffin70
    started a topic Sexual 'Stimulants' for Women

    Sexual 'Stimulants' for Women

    Does anyone take any sexual ‘stimulants’ for women?

    I know there are several for men including Viagra and Cialis, but would like to know if there are for any designed specifically for women?
    Reason I’m asking is because Mrs Muffin has a very low sexual desire / energy and she always uses the excuses “I’m too tired” or “we go to bed too late” or “I’m not a morning person”…..

    It’s been over 2 weeks since any sexual activity between us.

    Last night I finally plucked up the courage to ask her what the problem is…. I asked if she still loved me after 14 years of marriage and found me attractive…. And she said yes and apologized for not ‘being in the mood’... she said not to worry and she loves me more than anything

    I’m starting to wonder if it is hormonal / menopausal as she is having a big birthday next year that starts with the number ‘5’. Wife is also a very big lady (I call it voluptuously curvy) and that may also have something to do with it.

    The funny thing is though, if we have a weekend away or something and stay at a motel / hotel out of town, we always have great sex…. Maybe because we are leaving the stress of city life / work behind? I’m not really sure, but wife is more relaxed when we are away and always more ‘in the mood’..... Unfortunately we cannot afford to go away every weekend though

    I just wondered if any women out there have taken any stimulants or something to help increase their libido or sexual desire

    would be keen to hear from anyone who has or can recommend something else to help my wife

  • Texasred
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    Beware: when something sounds too good to be true, it usually isn't.

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  • muffin70
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    Things have been a bit better... we bought a new mattress for our bed, but we usually get intimate every 1-2 weeks
    But I'm happy for her to be super horny....

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  • Cynthia Rodriguez
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    Originally posted by muffin70 View Post
    Does anyone take any sexual ‘stimulants’ for women?

    I know there are several for men including Viagra and Cialis, but would like to know if there are for any designed specifically for women?
    Reason I’m asking is because Mrs Muffin has a very low sexual desire / energy and she always uses the excuses “I’m too tired” or “we go to bed too late” or “I’m not a morning person”…..

    It’s been over 2 weeks since any sexual activity between us.

    Last night I finally plucked up the courage to ask her what the problem is…. I asked if she still loved me after 14 years of marriage and found me attractive…. And she said yes and apologized for not ‘being in the mood’... she said not to worry and she loves me more than anything

    I’m starting to wonder if it is hormonal / menopausal as she is having a big birthday next year that starts with the number ‘5’. Wife is also a very big lady (I call it voluptuously curvy) and that may also have something to do with it.

    The funny thing is though, if we have a weekend away or something and stay at a motel / hotel out of town, we always have great sex…. Maybe because we are leaving the stress of city life / work behind? I’m not really sure, but wife is more relaxed when we are away and always more ‘in the mood’..... Unfortunately we cannot afford to go away every weekend though

    I just wondered if any women out there have taken any stimulants or something to help increase their libido or sexual desire

    would be keen to hear from anyone who has or can recommend something else to help my wife
    I know what you can give her that will stimulate her. It would make her super horny and out of control though. It can cause her to cheat on you because she will want sex all the time. So that would have to be something you would have to think about and talk to her about if you wanted to stimulate her with something I know of. You would have to go to your doctor so they can right you a subscription. It would be better to message me. I would have message you about this but I don't know how to do that on this site lol sorry.

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  • Texasred
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    Oxytocin is sometimes used via prescription to stimulate libido in women, but there's no comparison to things like Viagra which are used to boost performance, not desire.

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  • amy40
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    muffin
    any change?

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  • WaveRider
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    A lot of foreplay. A lot of passionate kissing. A lot of tongue work on nipples. A lot of tongue work sliding down to clit area. A lot of tongue work on vaginal area to include sucking swollen lips. A lot of massaging the inner ridges of her vajayjay. A lot of tongue work on her clit to include sucking her clit into mouth while tongue entices her to MASSIVE orgasm.

    If that doesn't work, go with meds. It hasn't failed me yet. BTW, when she's in a you=know-what kinda mood, I'll yank her in a bedroom, rip her clothes off, porn star her with many orgasms, and she'll become the sweetest woman on Earth.

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  • amy40
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    Read this recently that women need to feel loved to have sex.

    So muffin, ask your women if she feels loved and appreciated by you.

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  • amy40
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    plan something fun, muffin

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  • Stillness
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    Exercise. It works for us.

    There are also ben wa balls for vaginal exercise that may help. They're pretty cool.

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