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    So basically me and my fiance have been going out for 2 years and we ended up watching threesome porn and she got kind of mad like saying i bet you want a threesome now and i was like yea i wouldnt mind it and she said **** you i would never do it but after a while she wanted to watch it more and then one time i was ****ing her i put my fingers in her mouth and she liked it and started sucking them like **** so i thought she maybe liked the idea then i said about two girls and she went crazy and but now i try get her to put on MMF porn and she isnt as interested as FFM she likes FFM better now but still goes mad if i mention doing FFM what do you guys and girls think cause its giving me mixed signals and now i dont know how to act cause i dont know what she likes and i would never do MMF

  • #2
    just because she enjoys watching it, it doesn't mean that she is keen to partake in it herself...

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    • #3
      Yea but she likes putting my fingers in her mouth aswell and doing role play of MFM but she prefers FFM just dosent like me mentioning it so i dont know what she wants

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      • #4
        I don't know why you seem to think that her enjoying YOUR fingers in her mouth means she wants a threesome.

        I think you need to explain the mixed signals you're getting and ask her. Enjoying a certain type of porn doesn't necessarily mean you have interest in performing it.

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        • #5
          In the heat of the moment tho she says to me lets invite a guy up and she says aswell during oral can you imagine me and another girl doing this to you and they turn her on but she says she doesn't want to but to me it really looks like she does want one

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          • #6
            Watching something and actually replicating it, are two different things.
            Sounds you'd like her to want to because you do ... are they mixed signals or wishful thinking on your part?

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            • #7
              Im not sure tbh becuase i said i would do both and she said she would do it but i just dont think either of us has the balls to actaully say ok lets do it

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              • #8
                You are only 19 years old with a fiancÚ. Why are you even thinking of doing stuff like this?

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                • #9
                  If she's telling you that she doesn't want to, believe her. She may change her mind later, but for now, no.
                  Maybe she has some interest, and she says those things during sex because she thinks it's heightening your pleasure.

                  Having a serious , honest discussion about it, away from the bedroom, is a good idea. Tell her what you think and how her mixed signals are messing with you.

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                  • #10
                    One man's trash is another man's gold. She isn't into getting on with a 3some, whether it be MMF or FFM. However, she does seem to be open to new practices between the two of you and perhaps would be into role playing. In my opinion if you want to get her real angry keep on bringing up the subject. Just let it rest for a while and go with what she wants.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by muffin70 View Post
                      just because she enjoys watching it, it doesn't mean that she is keen to partake in it herself...
                      Some things are better left as fantasies.

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                      • #12
                        Threesomes are common female fantasies. I've never fantasized about doing two women at once. My g/f fantasizes about doing two dues at once. I can't say for sure, but my guess is she's done it before, more than once. Were I to bet, I'd put money on her doing more that one MMF threesome.

                        I've thought about fulfilling her fantasy. But I vacillate. Conditions would have to be conducive. The other dude would have to be STD free. She can still have sex for hours. She told me that when she was in college, she could have sex all night long.

                        I have talked to friends who're swingers. All have told me it's beyond erotic. Women really get into it when they're the object of many men's sexual desires.

                        I know that she wants me to watch her being banged by another dude. She's all but told me straight up. She has been watched at least once, but not with me. She said it really turned her on to know that another dude was watching her getting her brains banged out.

                        I do love her, but I'm not in love with her. I've visualized her being banged by another dude. I'm 99.9% positive that I wouldn't become jealous. That's not to say I wouldn't protect her if a dude were intentionally hurting her. And she'd have to brush her teeth and use Listerine if she were to give him head.

                        BTW, most of the porn that she loves to watch are women "amateurs" doing at least two men. Now that oughta be a huge clue.

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