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    Ok help im new to this
    My fiancee and i have been together over 5 years moved in together 4 months ago and where we once had sex every week its now more like once a fortnight if not longer. I love him to pieces but its making me depressed im losing weight on slimming world to be healthy. I feel more attractive more sexually charged like a woman for once....but he is always tired he always falls asleep i try buying toys and lingerie but to no interest or appeal what am i doing wrong

  • Did the change in frequency happen suddenly, after you moved in together?

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    • Originally posted by Paganchick94 View Post
      Ok help im new to this
      My fiancee and i have been together over 5 years moved in together 4 months ago and where we once had sex every week its now more like once a fortnight if not longer. I love him to pieces but its making me depressed im losing weight on slimming world to be healthy. I feel more attractive more sexually charged like a woman for once....but he is always tired he always falls asleep i try buying toys and lingerie but to no interest or appeal what am i doing wrong
      Welcome to WH!

      It may not be about you. What is going on in his life? More stress from his work? Longer hours? On medication? What?
      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
      ...
      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

      From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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      • When we moved in it was less frequent we do talk but he just doesnt seem himself like he doesnt want to try

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        • Are you sure he was ready to be living together?

          What else changed around that time?

          The more detail about what's going on in the relationship, the better we can help.

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          • Instead of wasting your time on expensive toys or lingerie, why not just ask him why he is not that interested in sex anymore?

            As another poster said there are many things that can effect a mans sex drive - working long hours, erectile dysfunction, certain medications...etc....
            but the first thing I'd do is talk to him about things... he might be under stress at work or something and men don't open up about their feelings and emotions as much as women do.

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            • Given that you and your fiancee have been together for over 5 years, then your communication should be great. If so, I'd recommend a heart-to-heart talk while focusing on what you love, the recent change, how you're feeling about it and if there is anything you can do to help. Be careful, as you women know, most guys generally can get defensive for the tiniest of things, so keep the focus off of him and on the relationship. He's definitely doing some introspection and I can speak from personal experience that moving in together can produce new dynamics that you may never see coming. If the conversation goes well, I'm also thinking that getting him out of the house, changing the routine and perhaps get back to some of the things that ignited the spark between you two five years ago would be an important reminder of who you both were then, who you are now, and why all the years in-between have been so great.

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              • No problems here. I've been using generic Viagra for a couple years and have had MUCH success. They're super inexpensive. They stay in your system longer and no side effects. 100mg is my pill of choice. I pop 1 about an hour before me and my lady about to throw down and I get so hard... I feel like my skins about to tear. Lol. I feel like Batman when we have sex. She literally has to push me off of her. She calls me the terminator. She says...she cums so much... That she loses count. Lol. by the way, I used to buy Viagra Pills at
                Last edited by jns; 03-30-2018, 05:19 PM. Reason: Advertising is not allowed.

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                • There different ways you can improve your sexual life. For example, try out some new positions. Man can do exercises to increase his libido. Also there a lot of foods that boost Testosterone, you can make natural diets to promote sexual health.

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                  • Aaaand... the op is gone but spammers sure like this thread!

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                    • Things are making sense now he has recently been diagnosed with anaemia

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                      • Originally posted by Paganchick94 View Post
                        Things are making sense now he has recently been diagnosed with anaemia
                        That makes sense. Anemia will make him always run at an energy deficit. Often anemia is caused by an iron deficiency but it could be from various reasons. Is the cause known? Is he taking pills to help?
                        I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                        ...
                        Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                        From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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                        • I understood the first bit of that discussing anaemia the second bit confused me but the doctors are unsure of the cause but he is taking iron supplements

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                          • We all had that kind of problem. The important thing is not to doubt ourselves about running a successful relationship. This summer I also had women problems and as a result, our sexual life was paused. When I was healthy again I still had no attraction to him or any man I don't know why. To keep our relationship safe I started using viagra for a few days. It's all ok now, time heals everything! If you are interested you can read here about the stuff I used.

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                            • Nearly all women benefit from the treatment approach targeted at the numerous causes behind this problem. Recommendations can sometimes include sex training, counseling, as well as sometimes medicine and hormone treatment.

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