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    hi guys, I’m curious...have any of you preferred one partners vulva/vagina over another and if yes why? Have there been ones you can’t get enough of and want to dive right in and others you’re like ‘whoa, I wasn’t expecting that’. Just curious because woman’s vaginas vary big time in appearance so if you’ve had a few partners you will have noticed.
    Do men/women care about the appearance of their partner’s vagina or are they just happy to have access?

  • Originally posted by Romy View Post
    hi guys, I’m curious...have any of you preferred one partners vulva/vagina over another and if yes why? Have there been ones you can’t get enough of and want to dive right in and others you’re like ‘whoa, I wasn’t expecting that’. Just curious because woman’s vaginas vary big time in appearance so if you’ve had a few partners you will have noticed.
    Do men/women care about the appearance of their partner’s vagina or are they just happy to have access?
    I do not have a great deal of experience with different women so don't take what I say as the end all of observations. I have had sex with several dozen women but as far as giving oral sex, the number has been way less, somewhere between a handful or two.

    In a general sense, there is not much variation between one woman's vulva and the next one's. Yes, there is a variation of color, hair or not, size and thickness of lips and whether salient or not. All have the same basic parts of outer lips, inner lips, a vagina, a clitoris including a hood, a urethra, a mons veneris and a perineum. I like dark hair and the dark, even black, features that are part of a woman with dark hair. The dark features seem to add to the mystery for me.

    As for diving in, I have been more likely to be interested in diving in during a longer term relationship than with having sex in general. I have not seen a disagreeable vulva on a woman I have had sex with. All have seemed to be pretty and unique in their own special way, but as I said, in a general sense, there is not much variation.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • No two people are alike and no two vulva are alike. There are some women that will have reconstructive surgery thinking their labia minora is too large, others that think it too small. The end result is, it is what it is. If you, as a male, or partner, aren't fond of a particular woman's vulva, then move on
      That which we forget may as well never really happened.

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      • Romy, I lean very strongly toward alternative #2...
        And mine is an informed opinion.

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        • Originally posted by Romy View Post
          woman’s vaginas vary big time in appearance so if you’ve had a few partners you will have noticed.
          Whatever differences there are aren’t big enough for me to have noticed.

          In my many conversations about the female anatomy over the years, I only recall one mention of the shape of the vulva. A close relative told me about a woman he’d known decades ago who had an extraordinarily long labia and clitoris that she was ashamed of. He didn’t mention the nature of their relationship or whether or not he liked it.

          The generation that has grown up on pornography may be different, but I don’t really think it matters to any of us. Smell/hygiene matters. Maybe grooming.
          "Those sowing seed with tears
          Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126

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          • I prefer mine adorned with a nicely trimmed bush, fragrance of attentive hygiene, and sitting on my face.

            I cannot do the prepubescent look.

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