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  • Toxic relationship and enjoyment of cervical pleasure ?

    Is there a correlation between toxic relationship and enjoyment of cervical pleasure ?

    In a recent discussion with a friend of mine, this topic came up and I wonder what are other women views.
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  • I'm not really sure what you mean by cervical pleasure. Do you mean, is there a correlation between toxic relationship and sexual pleasure?
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    • I was referring to the stimulation of the cervix as part of sexual pleasure.
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      • Hmm. I've never heard of any correlation between these two things. Is there some sort of study?
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        • Study not in the sense of a clinical study, there seems to be a correlation between massages, stimulations of the cervix and the healing of the heart chakra, and releases of emotions.
          On the subject of releases of emotions, rythmic massages as documented by Ita Wegman also help.
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          • A cervix really doesn't have any pleasure nerves per se. What I do know is that it can hurt like crazy if it takes a beating as it seems to sometimes do. I've never heard of a stimulation of the cervix being a forerunner to a toxic relationship. Toxic relationships tend to be more the result of abuse, - physically, emotionally or mentally.
            That which we forget may as well never really happened.

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            • If one partner does not consider the pain and pleasure of the other partner, a toxic relationship could result. Stimulation of the cervix is painful for many women. I'm not sure that that can be mitigated by technique. If one partner insists on cervical stimulation that results in pain for the other partner, then it is not a good relationship.
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              Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

              From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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              • I understand the chakra stuff, but I’m still not sure I understand the question.

                I will say that I am a woman who does enjoy having her cervix played with. I know I’m a minority (or so it seems) but it feels incredible with the right person & when I’m extremely turned on/ready.

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                • There are several layers to the question, and I didn't feel I had to elaborate, being a man posting on a women forum, asking questions about women pleasures is intimidating.

                  First. there is the fact contacts of the cervix can be painful for women during intercourse.
                  Second, the notion of being in a toxic relationship (for a woman) might lead to no longer respecting her boundaries, one that includes indicating to her partner to adjust to no longer hit the cervix so hard.
                  In such a relationship, intercourses can provide some sort of validation, therefore accepting them become a toxic way to connect. There is clearly emotional and physical suffering.

                  This is where the heart and its energy come into play as a mean to heal .

                  It also seems that her massages of the cervix can reconnect her to herself in a safe and loving manner, therefore changing the overall experience.


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