Women’s Health Interactive Forums

  • If this is your first visit, be sure to check out the FAQ by clicking the link above. You may have to register before you can post: click the register link above to proceed. To start viewing messages, select the forum that you want to visit from the selection below.

Announcement

Collapse
No announcement yet.

Can’t tell if I’m squirting or what? Please help

Collapse
X
Collapse
  • Filter
  • Time
Clear All
new posts

  • Can’t tell if I’m squirting or what? Please help

    Hello, so I never squirted before and never really tried to but lately I’ve been using a vibrator on my clit and couple of days ago, I held it on there and I felt this weird feeling seizure like and it felt like I peed. So I thought maybe I just peed well the next few times I made sure I peed before and it still happened. Also I looked and some of it’s creamy and some just wetness. The thing I don’t get is when that happens it’s like I can’t fully orgasm though, it feels amazing but for some reason I cant finish. I always finish with other toys and my partner so I don’t get it. Does anyone know of any ideas on what is happening, like am I squirting? It doesn’t shoot out like on porn so that’s what is throwing me off and if it’s actually squirting then I really wanna show my partner but I’m worried if it’s just me peeing. But if it was me peeing why would it cause this crazy seizure feeling. It feels great but just cant finish properly. I’m new here and didn’t know where else to ask this question since google didn’t help much

  • Porn RARELY sets a realistic expectation of....well....anything.

    It sounds like you're right and that you are squirting, to some extent. It doesn't sound like you're urinating.
    "Be what you're looking for."

    Comment


    • I 100% agree with Ashlee T.

      Sex is wonderful, porn on the other hand whether directly (from viewing) or indirectly from society and expectations, is harmful. I know some women can squirt and some can't. If you do then bonus. But don't ever feel like you need to in order to feel sexually functional. I've had sex with two women in my life. One couldn't squirt, the one I'm with now does when she is extremely orgasmic. But I have never had it as an expectation for ether one of them. I don't even bring it up. I enjoy seeing her squirt but not because I want to play porn flick, its because I enjoy knowing she is feeling so good and becoming satisfied.

      Let your body function the way it works best. If you think too hard about it, it takes the focus away from actually enjoying the experience of sex itself. Clearing your mind and just going with the situation as it happens is best. Remember, the brain is the largest sex organ in the body. If you are thinking too much about what needs to be, you won't experience what can be. Hope this helps.

      Comment

      Womens Health orange logoGet The Newsletter

      Receive our passionately crafted, medically reviewed articles and insights — the stuff nobody else talks about but you want to know — delivered right to your inbox.

      Latest Posts in Our Forums

      Collapse

      • Reply to I dont trust Mother

        Thanks for the replies. My sister and I are very worried she wont have the resorses she will need in the future. Nursing homes are not ideal and would...

        Today, 05:50 PM By secretkeeper
      • Reply to AC7

        No. My juicer can make it, but I've never actually done it. I may have made some at Whole Foods, but I typically buy peanut butter or almond butter from...

        Today, 01:09 PM By Stillness
      • Reply to I dont trust Mother

        as mentioned in my feb post, this has happened in our family
        the youngest being the beneficiary, also

        for peace of mind, try to let...

        Today, 12:10 PM By amy40
      • Reply to Period every five months or so

        Hey there. This is a really tough one. Mainly, because I'm not an OB-GYN.

        Have you spoken with your doctor about what the potential causes...

        Today, 09:26 AM By Ashlee T.
      • Reply to Wife no longer 'in the mood' - advice please

        Okay, so there are some things that stood out to me big time.

        First, the woman doesn't feel good. Maybe it's weight, maybe it's hormones,...

        Today, 09:13 AM By Ashlee T.

      Latest Topics in Our Forums

      Collapse

      Working...
      X