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    hi all!

    I am a woman who does not regularly cum, even with masturbation.

    My husband is great and very giving in bed, but the only way I can orgasm with him is to use a very powerful vibrator when I am on top.

    When I dont use the vibrator, I find I cannot sleep after sex. I am a very bad sleeper by nature, but this makes it harder.

    Does anyone else share these difficulties? If so what do you do to help with them?
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  • Nothing unusual about this. Lots of women need a vibrator to reach climax. You don't mention your age and whether you've had kids, that often has something to do with it. Libido and sensations down there can be reduced and you need a bit of help. Thank god for modern technology. Keep a set of spare batteries, enjoy the vibes and stop worrying, at least you can still cum.
    But on a serious note, there could be all sorts of other reasons why you are simply not turned on enough to cum naturally:
    - Bored with routine sex (solution: spice things up)
    - Tired, stressed (solution: take a nice holiday and have sex at the resort, see if it makes a difference)
    - Not enough foreplay (solution: take your time, set aside a long evening and try to build things up properly)
    - Your husband isn't as good as you think he is (hopefully it's not this last one, otherwise the solution I'd suggest wouldn't be popular with monogamists)
    Good luck!
    Last edited by GillBlack; 09-30-2019, 08:33 AM.

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