[versatile9]

Dear Friends,

Any further thoughts to cope up with my present situation please?

Having confessed, wonder how to further move on as things are very grim.

[Little]

Some people are snakes. Trusted friends are sometimes our worst enemies. You and your husband must be very good-hearted people to have trusted this man for so long and to be so broken-hearted about his betrayal.
Of course it is not 100% the friend's fault, but I would say that a hefty majority IS his fault. It always hurts when a friend lets you down. Of course it is going to hurt when a friend betrays you in such a heinous way. I suggest you show your husband that he CAN trust you, that his trust isn't misplaced in you. It seems you're already doing that.
Now, aren't you glad I didn't delete this thread? You can come back and post on it and get advice whenever you want to. It can be like therapy for you.

[versatile9]

Hi Friends,
I have been crying all along as it is very sorry to see my husband weeping all the time and is keeping to himself nonstop. Equally he has been questioning me about the stage by stage the things happening and I have also told him everything, though in not exact words. But he keeps repeatedly asking the exact words, time and my reactions, etc etc again and again. I feel that if I get into exact descriptions of words, etc will only make matters worst for him and me. Don't know what to do and at the same time I feel that he should appreciate my telling the whole thing straight away. How to handle his questions is a very sticky and embarrassing position for me...tough time still. Thx

[Kakie]

Equally he has been questioning me about the stage by stage the things happening and I have also told him everything, though in not exact words. But he keeps repeatedly asking the exact words, time and my reactions, etc etc again and again. I feel that if I get into exact descriptions of words, etc will only make matters worst for him and me.

just be open and honest with him. if you with hold things from him they will end up eventually slipping out and then hes going to find it even harder to trust you again or to believe what you say. hes going to have questions, i would if i were in his position. eventually he will stop asking, but until then i think you owe it to him to be as honest as you can with him.