[cas27]

I am not stalking at all...I saw the girl in his list before and it didnt bother me until such time that he said he likes her a bit.I was curious and looked at the profile once..I swear just once.. and just in time I saw comments from the girl like thanking him for liking..I was good that I was on my toes ..that is why I deactivated my fb account...cause I wanna save what I have for him...I know he has doubts that I may have talked to the girl..cause I did once to another girl before..but ugh..I will never do that again..for once ..I am not really like that...and i made a mistake and I have learned my lesson..so though I have doubts and I am jealous..I managed to not talk or let them be.

[cas27]

and oh I am sorry...I only checked her once...and she isn't an ex or a gf I guess...but a new chatmate..and though I have the urge to look again and see for myself what is really going on..hahhaha i better not...it will just give me trouble...I just pray that this will pass too like the rest...but now ..I feel his coldnes that is why I am not so happy

[jns]

cas, I would be careful of reading too much into a relationship where you two haven't met. Maybe I am old-fashioned that way. With the internet, it is hard to have someone honestly pledge exclusivity with no direct physical contact or at least very close proximity. Even with exchanging videos and doing video chat. A lot of what is communicated is non-verbal and interactive. That has not been able to be transmitted very good. For instance, does he know by smell what perfume you like? Has he ever heard your voice without the distortion of electronics?

[cas27]

well I guess in that case ...yeah I know I may have been reading too much..but he seems real and we both went through rough times in our previous relationships..so I have trusted him and feel for him...